The EU also said post UK referendum that an application by Scotland would be fast tracked, The EU has also said, (as has NATO), that Scotland would have to apply to accede and go through the process without fast tracking, and would have to adhere to the Maastricht criteria on debt and deficit. I don't think Scotland would manage that currently. I also don't think that too many exceptions would be made in reality, whatever might be said publicly.
For the EU, it's more being part of a community with benefits rather than being ruled completely by a government that doesn't represent or listen to you. This nonsense about not having the ECJ or ECHR because it's the EU telling the UK what their laws are and that has to stop, these are war criminal and human rights courts, fairness and to prevent governments abusing people. It's not control, it's extra support and protection.
I think you'd better have a look at where the war crimes court actually is, and it isn't the ECJ or the ECHR. It is a completely different entity. The ECJ and the ECHR are precisely why I voted Leave. They are based on the Napoleonic code, which is completely at odds with Habeas Corpus and Common Law. The EU/Commission neither represents me nor listens to me. The whole place runs on the Acquis and this covers every aspect of existence. I haven't noticed the ECJ or the ECHR stopping the abuse of the people in the Greek Islands by Frontex, where people's properties are being seized to turn some of the Greek Islands into a migrant holding pen.
It is about control - absolutely. The Commission/EP etc aren't a set of fluffy bunnies - they are ruthless in the advancement of the Project. Selmayer is the one currently operating Juncker as his puppet. Barnier is after Juncker's job, and their end goal is a federalised Europe, without a nation state in sight. You may think that's a good idea; you may want to conveniently ignore the fact that the EU is engaged in empire building; ask yourself why the EU was at the G7; why Mogherini is allowed to swan into HQ NATO and speak, as the EU is NOT a NATO Nation; why Mogherini is on manoeuvres to get a seat at the UN security Council (she wants that of France).
As for 'protection', that's NATO, and the US, not the EU. The EU (and that includes the majority of those EU member states who are also NATO nations) pay the square root of f all to their own defence; preferring to rely on the generosity of Uncle Sam, who has got tired of paying and has been asking for the Europeans to up their game since the GW Bush administration.
whatever you do, don't go to Scotland and say the word Thatcher As long as you don't go to England and say Tony Blair or Gordon Brown. Lady T had been out of power since 1990 iirc; why hasn't the devolved government in Scotland righted all the wrongs she supposedly did. we are after all 28 years on...