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To think Love Island is immensely skanky and shallow

133 replies

bearbehind · 06/06/2018 21:46

What is the point of a reality show where the sole purpose is to exhbit the morals of an alley cat and get it on with complete strangers in order to win.

I do not understand why it's so popular. It's just a load of wannabes.

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TatianaLarina · 06/06/2018 22:50

Maybe the show is self selecting, but it did send the message that men can be articulate, intelligent and still be attractive whilst women’s only worth is in their looks

With the caveat that I haven’t watched any of this year. There was not a single articulate intelligent man on the show last year, is this year so different?

They basically just talked in catchphrases ie: bantz

JacintaJones · 06/06/2018 22:50

I'm just not interested in it.
So I don't watch it.
So I don't have an opinion of it.

Ithinkthatsenough · 06/06/2018 22:52

Awful shallow shitfest.

DerelictWreck · 06/06/2018 22:53

What I don't understand is people who are ok with their underage children watching it. It's basically soft porn.

Moononthehill28 · 06/06/2018 22:53

Watched it for five mins. Absolute depressing shite. It’s just awful.

VelvetSpoon · 06/06/2018 23:03

It is entertaining in its own way.

However it does make me feel sad that it demonstrates society (certainly under 25s) on the whole value looks -often surgically enhanced - and celebrity more than intelligence, personality etc.

I do wish that in LI there were some people who were just normal people rather than botoxed wannabes with perfectly honed bodies. However I expect the producers would say that wouldn't make good tv.

TinklyLittleLaugh · 06/06/2018 23:14

Yes Numbers I am cackling with my (grown up) girls and bonding over.

We are laughing at the boys and how clingy and possessive they are of their partner after just one day. The girls are much more sensible about rushing things.

We were also laughing at the girls over the top reaction to the new girls: they were all very dog in the manger about their partners.

I said I would probably be hanging with the lads exchanging bants, rather than curling my hair with the girls. My daughters informed me that would make me a "man's girl" rather than a "girl's girl" and this was a very bad thing and apparently and would make me appear to be a slag; all the girls would hate me and no one would vote for me.

Sometimes I'm glad I'm old.

SilverySurfer · 06/06/2018 23:24

OnlyFoolsnMothers
I love reality tv but I draw the line at this piece of crap which celebrates having the IQ of a sponge.

You're over-estimating if you think the IQ of these cretins comes anywhere close to that of a sponge Grin

LemonysSnicket · 06/06/2018 23:25

It's like watching rats thinking they're lions ... I live it

LemonysSnicket · 06/06/2018 23:25

Live*

LemonysSnicket · 06/06/2018 23:25

Love omg*

LemonysSnicket · 06/06/2018 23:26

Big brother is what the over 30s watch ( I've always thought it was gross) ... Love island is the new B.B.

WiseDad · 06/06/2018 23:35

Sometimes I'm glad I'm old.
Made me laugh. Yes. I was hoping that someone would explain what the hell Love Island is supposed to be about but as to me it’s a media frenzy about people who want to be famous for spending tons of time in a gym or Botox clinic. Beautiful people are fine, they’ve always been with us but society’s adulation of looks and a laugh over everything else is worrying.

Sometimes I’m glad to be old.

NotAnotherNoughtiesTune · 06/06/2018 23:50

Well how else can you watch prostitution on TV?
They have to cover it up somehow.
Though wouldn't call it love island more like boak beach.

MyRelationshipIsWeird · 06/06/2018 23:53

It is mesmerising, in a kind of going to the zoo way, looking at the strange creatures you wouldn't usually mix with I came on to say this!

Of course its utter tosh and the people are not the type I would be friends with, but actually they become quite endearing when you watch the whole season Blush

They're not necessarily hamming it up either, this is how they behave in real life (check their initial photos, always out clubbing and pulling - thems were the days!)

Quite a few of them do end up in reasonably long term relationships from it (obviously there is some Instagram mileage for them, much like many sleb couples) so its not entirely about just winning the show.

I agree its not for kids but the most you really see is some blankets moving about with blurry night vision cameras - most teens will sadly have seen much worse online.

Seeing these people treating each other as prey or as disposable might actually be a bit of an eye opener for young people. Realising that these people will say one thing to their partner's face and another to camera makes it compelling TV but is also educational - I'm sure a lot of the girls watching will be a lot more cynical about the motives of any 'grafter' they come across! And no, my DCs don't watch it, but when they're older I won't judge if they do.

I know plenty of people who enjoy shit TV, whether Gogglebox, I'm A Sleb, soaps or this. Different strokes and all that.

Bbbbbbbb2017 · 06/06/2018 23:55

Its so awful that it is blood brilliant! Love it :D

Bbbbbbbb2017 · 06/06/2018 23:57

I also like you guys mocking the iq of them when amongst them is a doctor and a solicitor Hmm

GabsAlot · 07/06/2018 00:01

im with you op-im no prude but the sole p;urpose is to couple up and shag then swap round its vile

FrustratedTeddyLamp · 07/06/2018 00:06

I find it interesting people are questioning the IQ of people on a show that they admit they have no interest in, and don't watch, yet they think they feel their opinion is valid.

How about let people watch what they want without shitting on themh, it's not harming you and ITV2 isnt exactly a bastion of high brow TV so it's not likely to be replacing a show that interests you.

KERALA1 · 07/06/2018 00:07

You can get vapid solicitors- it's a different sort of thick to the usual kind but thick all the same

bearbehind · 07/06/2018 09:31

It is interested no how many people are happy to let their teen kids watch this tripe.

Its just a swingers club on a remote island.

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DepressedAspie · 07/06/2018 09:36

I don’t have a tv, but I had a look at it on YouTube yesterday and it’s like watching the chimps in the zoo, apart from the chimps probably have a higher intellect and more dignity.

This will teach teens what relationships are supposed to be all about. No wonder std rates are climbing. It’s vacuous rubbish.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 07/06/2018 09:36

YANBU. İf I wanted to watch people getting it on there are plenty of porn channels.

BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 07/06/2018 09:37

I think there's a lot of pearl clutching going on about Love Island, it's not really that bad. Yeah it's shit, frivolous car crash tv but something if you have lots on your mind, a stressed life etc it's good to watch something like that, a bit of escapism.

They're a mixed bunch, including a doctor and a solicitor, even Danny Dyers daughter is on it at the moment.

If you don't like it, don't watch it but don't knock those that do. Horses for courses and all that.

BitchQueen90 · 07/06/2018 09:44

The doctor on it is completely out of place though. None of the women like him and one even said she didn't want to kiss him because he had an "intellectual job." They're all shallow. The bloke in there that everyone fancies is so dull. These type of shows are just about who is the best looking.

I watched it for the first time ever this week and I just do not get it. It's shit.