Would you want to know?

[WiltedDaisy]

Name changed for this. I have just discovered a friend has been seeing several women behind his wife's back since they got together. They've been together about 5 years I think maybe 4 and are about to start IVF, which we know because he moans about it.

He has moaned when drunk before about the lack of sex even though she wanted a baby and how he wished he could get away with an affair as he knows he married the totally wrong & 'f*cking dull' as he calls her , woman.

It's such a cliche though too with his job (and they're all supposedly at it), but I thought he was nicer deep down

For background, I'm not at all close to her. I barely know her really. She's not even on my FB friends list.

Would you want to know?

I would want to know!

I'd tell your poly friend who thinks he's a fit guy to say 'hi' to your cheating friend from you.

Then he'll know you know about his affairs. Far more uncomfortable for your cheating friend.

there is an assumption on this thread that the woman is infertile and should stick with it so she can have her baby. It's not always the ladies btw

It's what the OP said that's why. And I didn't see anyone saying she should stick with it so she can her baby - they are saying that someone who doesn't even know her should keep their nose out of it because it is not for the OP to decide whether she wants and needs to know given where she is right now... BECAUSE THE OP BARELY KNOWS HER! She has no idea what is best for this woman.

sometimes you just have to do the right thing even if there are consequences yes, the right thing like keeping your nose out of other people's business whom you don't even know. There are NO consequences for the OP here. It is not about her.

@applesandpears56 'Greyhound - it’s not a treat to tell her!' It's not a treat, it's not a responsibility either.

What has his job got to do with it?