Softzilla, the police

[Unreasonableunreasonableness]

I can't update just now but here's the new thread. I will update later when I can.

What did they say about the text she sent you when they were there?

@DailyMailClickbait - basically the other friend who was going to go to the police first had some sort of breakdown and pretty much disappeared. As did Stalky. I never involved the police. He popped up again once more and I finally sent him a message along the lines of 'Fuck right off; any more nonsense from you and I will call the plod'.
About six months after that I got a fairly incoherent apology (via email). I didn't respond. I have no idea what happened to him after that.

The thing is, I think she genuinely believes that you owe her the money for that soft play trip. And she's been getting angrier and angrier that you havnt offered to pay her back.

She's completely wrong of course, but she must truly believe you owe her this money. They might be going through a tough spot financially, so the husband wasn't surprised because she's been complaining to him that you havnt paid etc.

She's just, and totally wrong but obviously really believes that you should have paid.

Wow. So she baldly lied to the police about a number of things: texting you when she was supposed to be texting her DH in front of them; being close friends with you when you're not; about not harassing you until proven otherwise with screenshots;, about being owed money by you, a 'considerable' amount until she realized they weren't going to stop pressing; then said £5 when you don't owe her anything at all ... wow. Just wow. She is completely and totally unhinged.

I'm glad they showed you how to block her while still keeping track of her efforts to reach you.

I don't suppose they asked about the upcoming anniversary 'party' that doesn't appear to actually exist?

Oh they said with the group that they have strongly advised her not to go. But they can't stop her unless the group leader decides she doesn't want her there or she pulls something that means they can come and remove her. They did advise me that if she continues to go that maybe I should find something else to do.

Maybe she'll stop, now? I do hope so but I have a funny feeling she may try contact thru others instead....

Wow, what a nutter.

Her dp arrived home in this time so is also aware of the situation but didn't appear surprised

Not surprised that the woman he's shacked up with is acting like a raving loon? I wonder if that could be because she's prone to this sort of extreme weirdness.

No way would I "find something else to do" and I would call the group leader and advise her that the police are involved too. If I was group leader she would be in last chance saloon, so much as a cross look and she would be out the door

Was there any other update about the 'anniversary party'. Did you def find out it was fake?!

Fab the Police said you can continue with your MN threads. Glad you remembered to ask

MiddleClass PIN is a police information Notice. A harrassment warning notice.

JesusInTheCabbageVan thanks

Please don't let her psycho behaviour stop you from living your life!
The playgroup leader sounds great so I'd still go.

Did they ask her about this apparent anniversary party?

Give the police a fiver and tell them to tell her to collect it from the station.

Wow she sounds like a real cling on or unflushable as dfriend says.

Money wasn't mentioned in any of the messages that were sent to the OP. Surely the police must know Soft is a liar.

TBH, as long as she behaves herself, there's no reason why you can't both go to the group. But then, she probably wont be able to behave herself which would mean she'll be out on her ear/seeing the police again.

The DH wasn't surprised is something. I'm guessing she has form for this sort of behaviour.

Yes Unreasonable, do what Mirror says.

I missed the anniversary party posts, although I've got the gist I think. But did SZ specifically ask you to leave your daughter in her care, OP? I think I've picked up something like that? Very odd, if so.

What was party friends view of this turn of events? And has softzilla sent any more messages since?

Where does the £5 come into it?
Is she claiming you owe her £5 and you do not?

OP doesn't owe this mad cunt any money and should not hand her a penny. I would also advise OP to ring the playgroup leader and update her (unless the police actually told OP not to.) Hopefully the playgroup leader will then ban SZ - she's been told to leave twice for acting the cunt as it is.

No, not just £5 but a sizeable £5 from your BFF!!!.

There is a difference.

Didn't all this start over money? She thought you should pay her entry into soft play?

What a fuss over £5 though.