To think women are conditioned to sound perform in bed?

[VogueVVague]

I mean making way more noise in bed than their male partners.

Like if you watch a standard film or (whisper it) porn, the actress is always gasping and moaning and whimpering whereas the bloke is just getting on with it.

Made me realise that i do actually exaggerate it myself and wondering why is it that media has tried to condition women to do this? And not men?

How about that as a perfect exemplification of it being a man's world?

Spot on. And then we wonder why (some) men think we are satisfied with a 'wham bam, thank you, ma'am'

I am vocal. It isn't put on. I am not overly loud but I could never be silent.

Can't stand silent men in bed. I want a few grunts, moans and words leading up.

I cry after sex 90% of the time. Not because it is so amazing or anything, it just happens. Even after bad sex. Orgasms lead me to cry, like a release. I forgot to remind dh the first we had sex and he was quite concerned when I started crying.