Not invited to what I thought was a friends wedding, not 🌃 the evening do after she sat chatting to me about her wedding!

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We met at a baby massage class when our dc were about 4 months many meet ups...

Loads talk of her hoping to get married... But other things to sort ie personal conversation... At one point meeting once a week... Then more sparodic asked dc went to nursery etc.

I thought she was a friend. She said one day... 'I'm getting married.. Date is x. Church.. Little reception at church for local ladies she has just met.. Then sit down dinner hotel then... Evening do.

She spoke to me at length about it, showed me wedding magazines... Said a mum form the school caught wind of it and joked about going she said..

' I thought no you cheeky cow I don't know you! Maybe I would invite her to the evening do if I got to know her more.. But no!!'

Her dd has just started school last September and she has moved to new school area... So new friends..

I didn't expect invite to anything but evening do. And it's not come wedding in two weeks.

But... In meantime I get the odd text.. How am I.. Enjoying weather.. She hopes to see us soon!!

I wanted to send her funny text last week re Megan's wedding and hers and its stuck me...

I'm not invited. Texting now looks like fishing!!

Would you carry I'm friends afternoon this? She's considering inviting people from school she has known a few months.. But not me.

I feel hurt.

Surely though if you've invited someone you're expecting to come and you don't hear back and you're seeing them frequently you'd ask??
'ah we haven't had your rsvp?? Hope you can make it?

Not just ignore it....

Sadly it just sounds this woman is insensitive at best...

Ah cross post!

Totally insensitive!!

Put it this way if for some reasons I want to get married and had baby group friend I didn't want invite..

I wouldn't after not seeing her for a few months invite her round, tell her I was getting married chat about it show her wedding magazines.. Tell her about cheeky new mums expecting to be invited and other mums letting it out the bag then text her about stuff after!! If I wanted to be a coward I wouldn't have got in touch!!