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to have so many driving peeves?

230 replies

littleemma1 · 17/05/2018 20:28

This is kind of just for fun but I’m intrigued to know what everyone’s top 3 driving peeves are... I’ll start...

  1. No indicators. Got to be. Especially on busy roundabouts, junctions etc or when cutting you up on dual carriageway. Anytime really 🙄
  2. Drivers who don’t say thank you when you’ve done something nice. Like it’s just a little wave but it makes all the difference! 👋🏻
  3. Drivers who can’t stick to one speed limit on a dual carriageway. Going from 70 to 90 to 80 is just silly. I usually find it goes I overtake them, they overtake me, then I overtake them, then they overtake me. It’s ridiculous. Does make me giggle at how much more fuel they’ll use 🤣 (not to brag but I have the luxury of cruise control so I know it’s not me!)

Please do let me know. I’m very curious.

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crispysausagerolls · 18/05/2018 15:19

I LOVE THIS THREAD

SeekEveryEveryKnownHidingPlace · 18/05/2018 16:14

Dunno why they bother leaving a space for cyclists at traffic lights - the ones round here ignore the lights altogether, ride up onto the pavement, cut across and back onto the road the other side of the lights, thereby jumping the queue

Not going to say I've never ever seen this, but not as an everyday thing certainly!

People who pull out of side roads and make you brake - and then drive really really slowly for miles! Like, are you a daredevil heedless of your own safety, or are you a timid little thing who will implode if you get over 40 mph? WHICH IS IT?

kalapattar · 18/05/2018 16:25

I don’t know what these “merge lanes” are but they sound pretty annoying

Merge lanes.

They're great and they do save time and also help traffic flow.

Zip merging in moderate traffic

veggiethrower · 18/05/2018 17:30

I have to drive into the city once a week and park in a particular underground car park. Every fucking time some twat has pulled in across the entrance to the car park either to drop someone off, have a chat on the phone or eat their breakfast (lorry driver this week).
Why? Can't they see it's the entrance to the car park?
There's no where else to pull in on that stretch of road but that's no excuse.
It causes a problem every week as traffic builds up while people waiting to turn into the car park have to wait for twat of the week to move off.

littleemma1 · 18/05/2018 17:44

@crispysausagerolls me too 🤣 wasn’t quite expecting as many rants and replies!

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PicklingGherkins · 18/05/2018 17:55

Mine is the tailgating with extra wiggling (if you know what I mean) and aggressive light flashing. A few weeks ago I was overtaking a lorry with a guy doing this behind me. I couldn't pull in as I was, as I say, overtaking a lorry. I pulled in straight after and confess I flicked the v's as he overtook. He took it upon himself to pull in front of me and slam on his brakes - to teach me a lesson I assume. The thing I don't get is that I drive a bashed up 15 year banger, he had a nice new VW Passat. He stood more to lose if I'd rear ended him. I certainly won't gesticulate anyone again - shit me right up that did.

bakingdemon · 18/05/2018 18:01

I cycle more I drive so from a cyclist's point of view mine are:

  • drivers who don't indicate when waiting at a junction and then suddenly decide they want to turn left - straight into me
  • generally drivers who don't indicate to pull out (minicabs esp bad for this)
  • drivers waiting at a junction whose noses are just far enough into the road that I have to veer into the traffic coming up behind me - keep your nose behind the dotted line!
  • drivers who tailgate you so they can shout about your bum 🙄
If anyone does a 'pedestrian peeves' post I will be ALL over that one too!
70isaLimitNotaTarget · 18/05/2018 23:31

Nissan note seems to be a common one for the older folk these days too!

When the Note was introduced it was "The small people carrier" aimed at parents with small DC, the boot is a good enough size, there's a shelfy thing to layer up and hide things, and lots of little hidey spaces.
I had one as a Courtesy Car when my DC were little , emblazed on the side with adverts and slogans. I bloody hated it .
I told the garage they should pay me to drive it because I was a working mum of 2 small DC so obviously their target market.

Fast forward a few years and I have one (I'm old Grin ) the salesman said they are popular with older drivers.
Which would explain why every bugger cuts me up in my Note .

passmetheloppers · 19/05/2018 00:33

Thought of something else...

Drivers who give parked cars such a wide berth that they are completely on the wrong side of the road, and in imminent danger of colliding head-on with someone coming the other way.

mathanxiety · 19/05/2018 02:46

In order to understand this peeve of mine I need to give an idea of the lie of the land.

I attend a church on Sunday mornings (yes yes I am a hypocrite, but bear with me).

The church is about 15 minutes away by car in a 25 mph zone. On my route I pass one other church. Neither my church nor the one I pass has a carpark. The area is completely built up and the churches were built before cars were abundant. My congregation and the other church's congregation between them take up about half a mile for (completely legal) parking on both sides of the street.

Parallel to this churchy street are side streets to both east and west. The town is laid out in a grid so all east-west streets are parallel and all north-south streets are parallel. There are some streets that are clearly main streets and some that are clearly side streets, with some of the main streets busier than others because of shops, etc. The churches are located on a main street that is a bit less busy than those that have shops. It is mainly residential. People use it because it has a bridge over a major feature that divides the town, and that makes it a de facto main street along with the other main streets.

Anyhoo, on Sunday mornings the congregation parking on both sides makes for very narrow driving lanes. Two cars can squeeze past each other without knocking mirrors off parked cars if they are careful and drive slowly. Looking at you and still can't believe you thought I was wrong to screech at you that time, DD2

On fine summer Sundays whole families take to the streets on their bikes here - adults, older children and kids who are two weeks off training wheels all out enjoying the fresh air. Local groups of bike enthusiasts set out in their spandex and goggles and helmets. Parents of young children hitch big yellow trailers to their bikes, with little red flags hoisted aloft that are supposed to warn you to drive carefully.

Then all these people set off on a Sunday morning on the street with the churches.

They could easily use the side streets. The side streets would be much safer for small children swerving as they get into their stride, and for the parents with the yellow trailers, and far more suitable for the serious velocipedists who insist on riding three abreast Hmm. They could use side streets on either side of the very narrow church street and easily turn and traverse one city block width to get to the bridge. (This is how my DCs all went to the local pool on their bikes when the pool was the place to be all summer.)

They could just do their bike riding on Saturdays.

But no, they ignore the side streets and prefer to dice with death on Sunday mornings.

Feliciaxxx · 19/05/2018 03:31

Does anyone know why indicating seems to have fallen out of fashion? It drives me completely wild and I have notions of following drivers to their destination and asking them why they are so ignorant/stupid/thoughtless - haven't got the nerve though. I also hate ALL taxi drivers who never indicate, park wherever they like, drive at 2 miles an hour, stop in the middle of the road blocking all the traffic etc etc. Also folk who stop on the hard shoulder and then pull off onto the motorway at about 20 miles an hour, often with their hazard lights on! If your car isn't fit to drive, stay on the sodding hard shoulder!!!

Imbluedabadee · 19/05/2018 04:42

I love this thread! Yes to all of these! Mine is people who undertake, there is one bit of dual carriageway on my route to work where the traffic going straight over the roundabout has its own lane at the side with a barrier round it so they don't have to stop (I hope that makes sense) so they will always be straight onto the other side of the roundabout in the left lane. I go onto that road from the right so I will always be in the right lane when I come off the roundabout and as I drive an ancient old banger I try to get over to the left lane as soon as I can after joining rather than trying to accelerate enough to overtake all the cars in the left lane (that road is uphill as well which doesn't help) but there are so many arrogant people who just floor it as soon as they come off the roundabout that the people in the right lane can get stuck there for ages! Drives me mad! I would happily get out of their way so they can overtake me if they would just let me into the left lane Angry

littleemma1 · 19/05/2018 07:23

Speaking of taxi drivers, I was driving back from my Mums last night and the main road from her house has a bus lane with a car lane towards the A1. I’m tootling along doing 50mph on a 50mph road, minding my own business and all of a sudden this taxi driver comes racing up on my inside in the bus lane and goes to under take me, but also, blasts his horn at me for some reason 🤔 I can only assume he thought I was too close to the bus lane line for him to get past, which is probably true, but it’s a really narrow road and quite often people coming in the other direction go over the lines when coming around the corners 😡 so I tend to hug the line of the bus lane so I’m further away from the white lines but still leave enough room for a bus/taxi to get past. Wanker that he was 🤬

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Leafyhouse · 19/05/2018 07:45

Saw a rather amusing sign on the back of a car:
'If I want you up my arse, I'll kiss you first'.

Thought that was rather witty. Grin

(And yes, it's a pet peeve)

Forgottencoffee · 19/05/2018 07:48

People who pull in to a parking space you’ve been waiting for 😡

ForalltheSaints · 19/05/2018 07:56
  1. That too many people are allowed driving licences
  2. Those who use the middle lane of a motorway and don't ever go run the left lane.
  3. Chelsea Tractors
reddington · 19/05/2018 07:57

2.5 litre V6 wank-mobile

Not sure why a small-ish engined car would be wankerish. The performance is probably a bit wank but that’s about it!

PicklingGherkins · 19/05/2018 18:57

A 2.6l engine isn't small by most people's standards - are you trying to throw shade?

Lweji · 19/05/2018 19:23

Maybe red drives an F1.

Ups, I stand corrected. F1 cars are limited to 1,6L.

So, maybe lorries?

littleemma1 · 19/05/2018 22:36

@PicklingGherkins and @Lweji I was also slightly bemused by @reddington comment 🤔

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reddington · 20/05/2018 09:18

A 2.6l engine isn't small by most people's standards

I said small-ish which most petrolheads would consider it to be. It’s hardly going to be particularly powerful. Can’t see anyone judging it to be a wank-mobile.

Andrewofgg · 20/05/2018 09:36

Sorry: but there’s a dual carriageway near me which goes from 40 to 50 then back to 40 less than half a mile later. I stick at about 38 (in the left lane) throughout. If I moved up to 48 I would save about eight seconds and I can’t be arsed.

PicklingGherkins · 20/05/2018 09:56

Blimey reddington! What are you driving? (feels sad for my extra extra small 1.2l) 😀.

Liberation1 · 20/05/2018 10:18

Drivers who pull up to a junction which is wide enough to fit two cars side by side to turn left or right but they sit in the middle. So you have to sit behind them waiting for them to be able to pull out right when you could have turned left straight away.

Drivers who never give way to anyone so your behind someone waiting to turn right into a side road but none of the fuckers going the other way will let them turn, even though there's a red light ahead of them.

When your waiting to turn right out of a narrowish road and a driver stops to turn right into the road but doesn't let you out first. They turn into the road then realise they can't get through due to parked cars/a queue of traffic behind me so have to wait but if they had let me out there would have been room. I once had someone say to me out their window "can you move over please " so they could get past to which I said "sorry but I can't make any room for you to pass unless someone lets me out.." which they could have done

I'm very much a give way to people where you can see traffic building up behind them driver or if it's a notoriously busy area and then I'll let someone out a side street etc when others just look straight ahead and stay close to the car in front.

Drivers who dangerously pull out in front of you when there is no one behind you so could have waited 2 seconds.

Drivers who need two bus widths to overtake a cyclist.

Buses are becoming increasingly wankerish these days by blocking junctions. The bus driver could see I was waiting to pull out right, he couldn't get through so waited and blocked the road I was wanting to pull out on with the back of his bus. Wanker.

reddington · 20/05/2018 12:08

Blimey reddington! What are you driving?

Generally things with more than 3 litres, but specific output and power to weight ratios are more important. For naturally aspirated petrols I want more than 100bhp/litre and forced induction petrols 160bhp/litre+. More than 8 cylinders is also preferable but there are some great 6 and 4 pots about. A screaming 1.8 pot making 220bhp in a car that weighs under a ton can be seriously entertaining. Biggest engine I currently own is a 5 litre V10.

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