80s exactly!
My dd maths skills are lower than 10 year old dd I can't help her now! But she gets it and barely needs help. I have never helped her with hw.
I have been on 11+ forums. I suppose one may go mad if your local schools are dire. Or if your dc is borderline. Thankfully we have good local school.
It's also this tutoring industry which makes you 🤔 you needs to hours extra every week and myths about the test perpetuated by the left decrying... But no fsm get in.
As I said earlier.. They can't from state primary because they won't help them!
Br has twisted my own suggestion of practise papers, help with nvr and exam technique onto hours of tutoring.. And support.
I don't know what's so hard to understand that in some schools pp child won't even bear the words 11+ because the teacher's think it's a dirty word. How on earth would that child get nearly the test.
Open up discussion, order all state primaries with relevance to be supportive to parents, start some extra classes on test ie... DIY ers.. To simply explain some things.. That alone will help massively!!
Cutting information off from children is a great way to stop them progressing.