All schooling is different from how it was in the 80s.
The introduction of the NC, much more focus on behaviour management, more use of setting and streaming, more ‘bespoke pathways ‘: EBacc /BTec etc.
I used to visit many comps in the 80s that felt like No Go Areas. (in Hackney, Lambeth etc) I can’t think of one that is like that now. (I visit about 20 a year). Even the ones with a reputation for being rough have lesson times under control and polite well behaved young people in tne corridors. If they get a bit OTT and forget their manners and you politely and gently, with humour, pull
them up on it, they say ‘Ooh, sorry miss’. I’m not saying there aren’t difficult students who treat staff rudely, even violently. But it is totally different from what I saw in some schools in the 80s.
I believe that most of the current advantages of Grammar schools can be dealt with by increasing investment in good comps, and by doing that we would be giving more children the chance to be fruitful and fulfilled citizens.
My slight, musical, academic quirky, quiet eldest is most likely of to Oxbridge following A levels, because of, not despite, our local comp.