TITZILLA 2: Implants, lawsuits & love affairs

[Welshgal1]

Back by popular demand... we're all this together now!

Original thread: I think my friend should pay, she thinks we should split it?http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/3240864-i-think-my-friend-should-pay-she-thinks-we-should-split-it

Long time lurker on mumsnet but just had to comment. This girl is absolutely batshit crazy. OP you are well out of this ‘friendship’. Hope you have a fab break with your OH

I realize I’m joining late in the thread and sounds like it’s been resolved (good on you OP!) but just a comment about after care for cosmetic surgery. I had a procedure done last year and the first 24 hours post surgery was pretty intense. Thank heavens I had DH to care for me. I did look into hiring a nurse through a service that manages post-surgery care (there was a slight chance that DH was going to be out of town for work ok surgery date but thankfully that didn’t happen). Those nursing services are pricey but not compared to the cost of the surgery - I would have paid it and considered it part of the overall costs.

I was under general anesthesia for several hours during procedure and I was in a pretty rough state that night - in quite a bit of pain and rather uncomfortable, and could barely walk. We stayed at a local nice hotel and it was a long night for both DH and me. He had to wake me up every few hours to take meds and to change dressings, walk me to the loo - was in so much discomfort that he had to literally help me take down and pull up my sweatpants each visit to the loo. He also had to make sure I ate something every few hours with the meds so had to make sure there was plenty of apple sauce and white rice on hand. With many of these cosmetic procedures there’s a lot of drainage or drains that have to be emptied. It’s not pretty or fun. Neither of us got any sleep that night. There was no way the surgeon was going to release me to a taxi driver or anybody other than a dedicated caregiver. And that person had to be a identified well before surgery day. The caregiver has to be present at the pre-op talk and must stay in the surgery waiting room the whole time during the procedure. It’s a pretty serious undertaking to be the caregiver post surgery and I really applaud OP for offering to do that for a friend. It’s too bad it went so sour. Guessing the “friend” was pretty scared about the impending surgery and pain and discomfort and incurred debt - but no excuse for that behavior. Good for you OP for offering to be so helpful to a friend and then sticking to healthy boundaries. Best of luck to you and DH on TTC!!

I hope she's been unfriended by lots of people for the fertility comment.
Vile.

I've been reading these 2 threads and I just have to say if you weren't in Wales (assuming that of course) then this could be my ex friend! Absolute narcissist, the threatening to take to court (over about £20!!!), DH absolutely hating her from the moment he met her, and the lies and shite on fb. Also she didn't really have any friends as such outside of online because she was such a twat that no one wanted to stay long.

It's actually really uncanny and I really do wonder whether it's the same person.

I've been reading these 2 threads and I just have to say if you weren't in Wales (assuming that of course) then this could be my ex friend! Absolute narcissist, the threatening to take to court (over about £20!!!), DH absolutely hating her from the moment he met her, and the lies and shite on fb. Also she didn't really have any friends as such outside of online because she was such a twat that no one wanted to stay long.

It's actually really uncanny and I really do wonder whether it's the same person.

This is SO going to end up in the Daily Fail....

Bookmarking!

The erstwhile 'friend' closely resembles member of wider family diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Similar spats on Facebook took several serious turns with said person accusing others of serious criminal offences. Not nice. Police always investigated, but quietly dropped when they looked at their records. Best to sever all contact. File under 'Experience' and thank Crunchie you don't have one in the family.

Just howling at the Reddit summary.

I have just read both threads and just...WOW!!

This woman is a loony tune!!

Legal action? Pissed my pants at that one. What a dumb fuck.

What a vile, nasty, immature ludicrous woman she is. You’ve totally done the right thing and handled this well OP. I ditched a friend of 10 years about 3 years ago after she showed her true colours and I tell you it was like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders! It’s never easy to cut a friend out of your life, but once you realise they weren’t a real friend and focus on that, it takes away the sting from the cut.

And as she likes talking legal shite, if she contacts you one more time, tell her you’re contacting the police to report her for harassment.

Eventually people see through the manipulation and lies. (I’ve had experience of a narcissistic person as a “friend”). False friends are not friends.Titzilla’s false FB friends will bolster her ego for a while because they’re entertained by her and her ridiculous views (“U orright hun?!”etc) Well rid, Welsh Gal. Enjoy your break with your lovely OH, look forward to an exciting future and forget about the malice of self-hating fools.

Just RTWT. Classic. Hope you are ok Welsh. She’s a nut job and you are gold.

OP, did you see HarrietHoyle (HarriettHoyle possibly) on the first thread? She's a solicitor who offered to represent you free if you ever bizarrely did get served with papers

Bloke267580 Autism is not a mental disorder. What the OP is describing is narcissistic, possibly Borderline Personality Disorder. It is NOT the same as autism.

@Bloke267580 Sorry autism is a mental disorder now and causes "extreme mind blindness"?
I suggest educating yourself.
Not sure what mental health conditions causes behaviour like this but perhaps you could enlighten me.

@ Bloke... unless you are a medical professional or have a child with ASD or have ASD yourself id advise caution as many of the posters are very very familiar with ASD and will tear you a new one

Oh my sweet life, the woman is totally bonkers!
First off she expects you to pay for the "privilege" of driving her to her cosmetic surgery, and looking after her afterwards when SHE should be paying YOU - and then she threatens to sue you when you, very understandably, tell her to bog off?
Does the woman not have parents? Siblings? Any other actual RL friends who drive? Of course she should have been able to find someone else to take her - she should never have booked the bloody surgery in the first place without having that back up in place!

Best of luck to her. Tit that she is.

The woman is insane

The woman is insane

The woman is insane

Bloke
It isn’t a mental disorder. From the same website you referenced “mental illness can be more common for people on the autism spectrum”. You’re conflating ASD (Autism Spectum Disorder) with a mental health disorders.

Are you sure about that Stylishmummy?