I know the answer some of you might give me but it’s not as simple.
My ex has new girlfriend. I know I gave no legal right to meet her. She’s met my daughter, kissed her on mouth first time they met. My dd didn’t like it and neither did I especially as my x has been seeing her for about three months. When I told him my dd didn’t want to be kissed on mouth he told me I was just being jealous ( nasty break up two years ago -he’s a total narcs and by the looks of it is trying to make me jealous but failing)
Because I dint tryst his judgement I asked if I can meet this woman and he said ok. That he’ll arrange that before she next sees my dd.
When i asked him if he’s seeing her today with dd he said no only to message me 5 minutes before she was coming home that they met!!!
I’m not sure why he has to lie and makes me wonder what this woman is if he can’t even say he’s meeting her with dd.
He was emotionally abusive and got away with the police. I’d be happier if he wasn’t in our life but dd wants to see him so I allow them their time.
I’d like to meet from mums, ladies, future step mums about your feelings about the mother and whether you’d want to meet then if she so wished.
He told me she wants to meet me but I’m not sure he told her. He lies a lot and did when we were together and exaggerates a lot too and I don’t know what to believe