I do not believe that women can be prostitutes and come out unscathed. I can see what pushes them to it, but I don't believe they see it as a 'transaction' then just go about their daily lives, forming healthy, normal relationships.
You can ‘not believe’ all you want, but we do exist.
Personally, I enjoy casual sex – really get a kick out of it. If I can make a good earning at the same time then why shouldn’t I?
I don’t attach any kind of deeper meaning to sex and I don’t give away part of myself or my body when I see a client. It’s just shagging, a chat, a cuppa then a nice wad of money at the end of the day.
We don’t all have the same feelings about sex and we are all capable of giving consent for whatever reason we like.
I have a partner and family,
I’m studying for a STEM degree,
I love cycling and yoga,
I eat a healthy mostly vegetarian diet,
I sleep well,
I don’t drink alcohol (not a drop),
I don’t take drugs,
I enjoy sex,
I enjoy getting paid for it, and I’m far from the only woman who feels that way.
I never feel dehumanised in my work and my clients have (for the most part) treated me with far more respect than many men outside the sex industry.
It's not for everyone and there are plenty of women in the industry who really shouldn't be but, for some of us, it's a perfect fit.
Porn, stripping and webcamming… now that made me feel dehumanised and objectified. In that setting, I really did become just a body to watch, rather than a full human being to interact with.
It's hard to fully realise the differences until you experience it.
@ReanimatedSGB thank you for everything you’ve posted on this thread. I can't add anything that you haven't already covered.