3 year old going to see the new avengers film.

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Would you judge?

My mum never watched movies and didn’t really get why some films were 15 or 18 growing up, so let me watch horror films with my big brother. I was genuinely FREAKED OUT by Freddie Krueger. I mean, for years I was properly scared of him, as if he might appear.

My dcs are only 3yo and 3mo, but I’m planning to stick strictly to the age limits with tv and video games as a result. I’m not prudish, but too much violence and horror aren’t good for anyone’s MH imo, let alone a young child’s.

Some superhero movies, I’d let a child watch, but probably not at age 3 tbh.

My dd and I watched the good dinosaur once and I switched it off mid way as I didn’t like some of it as found it a bit strong for a preschooler. It’s a PG, but so is Frozen and Moana which we watch no problem .

Oh sorry - should say watch horror movies when I was about 8yo.

I’m sorry, but if you think the good dinosaur is too strong for a 3 year old the. I think your projecting your own issues. That film is literally made for small children.

I’m sorry, but clearly it depends on the preschooler in question and the parent. There were tonnes of complaints about it, so I don’t think I’m the only one projecting my “issues” .

Justify yourself all you like my dear. I don’t agree with your approach and I never asked you to agree with mine .

Gosh, OP, you're really winning friends on this thread!

She's not 'projecting [her] own issues' The definition of a PG - a rating which people who actually understand the effects of film on children have given - is that 'some scenes may be unsuitable for young children'.

You do seem to think that allowing your very young child to watch age-inappropriate, complex and violent material makes you some kind of enlightened parent and your child mature and advanced. Regrettably, I don't think you're convincing most of us.

I’m sorry, but clearly it depends on the preschooler in question and the parent

Funny that isn’t it!!

No I wouldn't judge

I don’t think anything like that. My child likes it, is able to watch it without being upset and traumatised, is able to go to nursery without beating up any kids. So no, I don’t have a problem with her watching it.
The only accident that was had at nursery was a child re-enacting lion king and throwing another kid off a wall Mufasa style.
Awful parents, letting their kids watch violent films like that.

OP if your mind is made up and you’re happy with your choice that’s great. Peoples opinions and judging won’t change your mind which is fine. Why the need for the thread though?

I would judge because your 3 year old is not going to be still and quiet so I can watch it properly with my children.

Not sure I'd let a 3 year old watch the Lion King either but, hey, whatever.

I’m sorry, but clearly it depends on the preschooler in question and the parent

Funny that isn’t it!!

So you agree with me. I’m not projecting my “issues” then? Or is ‘projecting my issues’ the same thing as making a decision on media content because the certificate is PARENTAL GUIDANCE. Not “it’s made specifically for young kids says some random on the internet”

Ah “you’ve got ishoos”, the favourite insult of the biggest twats in the secondary school playground .

You asked for opinions dearest. So maybe you’re protesting too much with all your bravado.

I mentioned Deadpool up thread as it's one that my 8 & 13 year olds will def not be seeing anytime soon.
DP & I love it though.
It's the only one I would say is not suitable.

Or just go away? I literally asked if you would judge. I’m not interested in parenting classes. All of my friends children will watch it too. If you won’t let your 3 year old watch lion king then you definitely have issues.

Well aren’t you charming. Bye then .

Bye hun

You're a charmer, op. Think you are answering your own question with every post.

Woah woah woah what's with the spoilers????

I would love in my age 7 ds would watch live action films - but the only ones they will watch are power rangers or those buddy dog movies They've seen guardians of the galaxy because it was showing in the children's area of the ferry one time. So then they've seen guardians of the galaxy 2 as well. And actually men in Black because of being on in the family movie spot on tv at 6ish. They won't watch jumanji or Jurassic Park. I'm hoping Star Wars and Harry Potter will be ok soon. They're very vociferous about what they think is too scary (basically anything with real people in that they think is boring).

My son (4) has seen all the marvel films, watches the cartoons and loves anything superhero - he doesn't really follow the plot in the films but he enjoys them. The worst behaviour he learnt from these was a phase of 'hulk smashing' me and his dad awake. I've only taken him to the cinema to two films and he was a pain in the arse throughout (being noisy, needing several wees, messing around with snacks, moving seats) so I won't be taking him for this reason alone, but I imagine his father will and I have no problem with that.

I wouldn’t judge. Although the thought of others judging me could put me off taking her to the cinema unfortunately.

I took my 7 year old to watch ghostbusters a couple of years ago and felt a few looks, although it was her choice of film! She loved it. Miss Peregrines Home for Peculiar Children was another film that I debated but was loved by both her and her 6 year old brother. I only censor up to a point, as in I always watch a film first and decide from there. I know it’s an expense, but maybe an adults only viewing for you first? You could also gauge the age range of the audience then too.

Ultimately though, you know your child and if you think she will enjoy it.

I always watch the film first too.
Hence why me and my husband are going this afternoon to watch it.
She knows what she’s scared of and will avoid films with those things in, but heroes and villains aren’t the things she’s scared of.

See it first/read about it - listen to those who say that some superhero movies are suitable and some (like Deadpool are not). Then make a decision - this movie is not Guardians of the Galaxy.

Interestingly a lot who say it is are basing it on Spiderman/Ironman/Hulk rather than actually this movie itself

Well I think you have your answer OP, plenty of judging already!
Fwiw, if she's seen all the other movies, then this one will be in a similar vein, so she will enjoy it.

So why did you bother asking for opinions if you were just going to stick your fingers in your ears and shut your eyes tightly so you couldn't see the responses? I would consider letting a mature 10 year old watch a 12A, but I would never let a 3 year old watch a 12 or a 12A because they are completely inappropriate for that age group. The age ratings are there for a good reason and I wouldn't want a 3 year old sitting anywhere near me when I go to see it. Your DC will have plenty of time to watch it later.

Tomboytown - this one isnt in a similar vein though that is the point