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Leaving London

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Sonotcivil · 21/04/2018 23:00

Hi in a serious mess about this, I'm so confused on whether to leave London or not.
Background : grew up in small insular town in lincolnshire. Left at 18 and moved to London working with the civil service.
I'm now 24, in a relationship on about 35k a year in the civil service.

My issue is I want to start a family in a few years time and London is just so expensive. Me and my partner both earn ok money but renting in London is he'll, and would struggle to get a mortgage and the I don't want to be in my eyeballs in debt worth millions the.
However I love all London has to offer and think it could be an amazing place for a kid to grow up and live.
My job restricts me to some cities if I move, it can be Norwich, Leeds, Manchester, Sheffield, Cardiff or Edinburgh.

Any help appreciated

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Bluesmartiesarebest · 24/04/2018 00:05

I’m going to go against most posters here and say that you should move to Leeds or Manchester in order to buy a house. You have a great opportunity for your career and to own a home. You’ll probably have enough spare money for weekend trips to London if you move away!

Sonotcivil · 24/04/2018 00:49

Thanks for your opinion @Bluesmartiesarebest. Yes job opportunities are good there for me and I could actually afford a home Grin

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