I wasnt told anything about breastfeeding with ds1, except when i spoke to a male midwife and mentioned my baby had only fed for 5 minutes. He said "oh his tummy is only the size of a cherry so that will fill him.up for ages". I knew bottle fed babies generally went 4 hours between bottles so assumed that was the same with my breastfed baby. He lost almost 10% of his body weight and my milk didnt come in until day 5. By this point i had researched and he was literally on the boob for the next 4 months, putting on a pound a week in some cases!
Ds2 he latched straight away (quick and "easy" water birth). I was asked if i wanted a "6 hour discharge" once id been stitched up and midwife was surprised that ds2 was feeding. Ds2 is now 3 months old and barely lost an ounce... he's enormous.
But i can totally understand how this might have happened, im sure the mum tried to feed but if baby was sleepy and not latching and mum was knackered after birth it isnt hard to understand how she may well have slept a full night, tried to feed in the morning and have then not been able to rouse baby to feed.
I think regardless of language the lack of infant feeding support in this country is an absolute disgrace!