@ittakes2
I would not have realised myself the unfort consequences of a baby not feeding for 15hrs.
It's frightening for me because my DS didn't feed for around that long. I'd say it put into perspective why the SCBU nurse was so off with me, but there was no reason for her to carry on being a cow to me once I'd started trying to feed.
It also calls into question why nobody on the HDU suggested expressing colostrum to me. It was never mentioned to me, and I was in no fit state to be coming up with ideas like that on my own. They all just kept telling me to go to sleep - as if you're going to sleep while feeling traumatised after a horrendously painful induction followed up by being separated from your baby minutes after the birth and then spending the night on a ward with other women who have their babies with them.
Once we were both back on the post-natal ward the midwives were very good in helping me latch DS on and also helping me express so he could be fed with a syringe.