From childhood many of us have high expectations of our wedding day. I certainly did. So here goes:
Baby born in Jan, wedding was already set for June and hubby to be wouldn't postpone which was a possibility.
Didn't want any bridesmaids but ended up with 5 as was pressured into it. The cost was phenomenal. The catalogue of disasters on the day are as follows:
One bridesmaid unavoidably sick and couldn't come.
One of my closest friends didn't turn up and sent a blasé text feigning illness, managed to post several selfies the day after looking perfectly healthy. Have never spoken to her since.
Few other guests that had confirmed didn't turn up. Can live with this. It happens.
DJ didn't play ANY of our play list whatsoever, music was awful. Barely anyone got up and danced. Free bar was throughly abused by people. Came to £3500.
Close relatives husband was extremely rude to both of us and other guests, this has caused a big family feud ever since. V strained relationship now between us.
Venue was lovely but wrong meal was served. Was too late to change.
Several guests were telling me of various problems with the day/evening which made me feel worse.
One of the main bridal party was totally inebriated on drink and possibly drugs, showed themselves up and offended many guests.
The list is not exhaustive. I may sound like a spoiled brat but I still feel deflated, angry and aggrieved about it all. Husband doesn't feel the same. We are happy as our children but I can't shake off these feelings. Ceremony itself was perfect so I'm clinging onto that for some comfort. Sorry for rant and long post!
I have thought of mentioning to husband about renewing our vows in the future but I doubt he will go for it.
Anyone else got similar story/feelings/advice. Really would be appreciated. Thank you.