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Original poster

Sister’s behaviour around DH

84 replies

Hazandduck · 02/04/2018 08:40

I feel bad for even typing this but I just have that niggly feeling and I don’t know how to act upon it.
Yesterday,

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Petalflowers · 02/04/2018 08:42

I presume it’s your sister, not DH, and you suspect she fancies him?

InspMorse · 02/04/2018 08:42

Smile Are you still there OP?!

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 02/04/2018 08:45

What's she doing then?

DavidBowiesNumber1 · 02/04/2018 08:46

Niggly feeling about what? You think she fancies him?

PurpleDaisies · 02/04/2018 08:47

..... and?

TaytoAllDay · 02/04/2018 08:47

The suspense is real

InspMorse · 02/04/2018 08:51

Poisoning him?
Stealing from him?
Is she flirting with him?

ZigZagIntoTheBlue · 02/04/2018 08:59

She's taken the dh and ops phone to stop her from uncovering her evil plot...

Joanna57 · 02/04/2018 09:06

I totally agree with you.....tis very suspicious.

WhiteRabbitWhiteRabbit · 02/04/2018 09:07

Evil twin. She's the evil twin!

HolyMountain · 02/04/2018 09:08

Is she not back yet?, I’m interested in this one.

InspMorse · 02/04/2018 09:08

I think you're right zigzag
OP was just about to tell us & walked in, snatched the phone off her & smashed it into a million tiny pieces...

InspMorse · 02/04/2018 09:09

'Sister' walked in...

AlessandroVasectomi · 02/04/2018 09:12

Either sister walked in, or OP was interrupted by next poster before she could continue with the basic factual matrix.

bonnyshide · 02/04/2018 09:12

Based on the detailed information given I'd say YANBU

Juells · 02/04/2018 09:13

It's a fishing lure, to see how many bite Grin

flumpybear · 02/04/2018 09:14

Oooowwwwww I'm intrigued!

gooseygoosegoose · 02/04/2018 09:14

LTB !

bobstersmum · 02/04/2018 09:16

Oh lord, that's terrible

StormcloakNord · 02/04/2018 09:16

YAPBU

ghostyslovesheets · 02/04/2018 09:18

Yesterday my sister told me DH was king of the lizard people and controlled the PM through mind waves?

GreenItWas · 02/04/2018 09:18

Storm YAPBU Grin

dorothyparka · 02/04/2018 09:18

... all my troubles seemed so far away?Confused

DoneDisappeared · 02/04/2018 09:19
Biscuit
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Hazandduck · 02/04/2018 09:22

I posted too soon urgh! Yesterday we were all together for a family roast at my parents’. DSis and her 2 kids, me, DH, our baby, plus rest of the fam. DSis was going out to the pub for the night after we’d had dinner and her children were staying in with the grandparents.
She is single, her DH left her after having an affair 4 years ago and ever since she has said many, many times she no longer believes in any love or trust any man. She has said this pointedly to me several times as if she is trying to warn me that my DH will do the same. (It feels like she is trying to make me doubt him which I don’t at all, he is the loveliest of men.)
Last year when I was pregnant she warned me that I need to not focus just on the baby and make sure I make time for DH which I understand and appreciate but again I felt like she was hinting, my DH is NOTHING like her arse of an exH but she still won’t accept that her ex wasn’t a very nice person, even though he told her his reason for having an affair was “she let herself go” after having their son. Hmm Angry

Now I know this is obviously a sign of how badly the affair has knocked her, and my heart breaks that the once trusting, selfless kind person she was has now become so cynical and dare I say it heartless but do you think this behaviour is acceptable:

We were sat on the sofa; I had DD on my breast and DH was just sat watching telly. DSis came over in her change of outfit for the night; it was a Sheer top with just a bra underneath. She made a point of adjusting it in the mirror above his head then said to me “Is this too slutty?” DH was just looking at his phone didn’t look up bless him. I said no it looks fine and then she made a point of getting DH’s attention by saying “I’m asking Ducky too.” He went so red, he is such a shy person he really doesn’t know how to react in situations like that and I just felt awful for him and so pissed off at my DSis because it feels like she is just flaunting herself in front of him intentionally! I absolutely love my sister she is my best friend and I hate having to write this. She has always been there for me. I don’t think she would go there...but the fact her ex has just destroyed her trust in anyone I wonder if she would to prove it to me? What do you think? AIBU to doubt her?

I am really sorry I posted that too soon!

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