One case isn’t the whole picture. What about the men who lose job, home and children because of an accusation that proves to be unfounded? What about the people whose lives are on hold for 2 or 3 years before the CPS decide there is no case worth pursuing? Accusers and accused?
That has nothing to do with anonymity. I live in a mid sized city. there will be dozens of men accused of rape here, awaiting trial. I haven't heard about a single of them because I don't know them. Contrary to belief, the local paper does not do a huge spread every time a woman reports a rape.
I do know someone who was accused of rape, later convicted. He lost his job straight away because his bail conditions stopped him from attending that area. No paper wrote about it. His colleagues found out from their head of department and spread it round the office. How would anonymity possibly have made a difference here? Sometimes investigations take a long time.
Re children- again, nothing to do with anonymity. That, as the OP keeps saying, was her question. Child protection must be based on what is best for the child. If there is an allegation of rape, it is necessary to ensure that any contact takes place safely. It's unfortunate if it turns out the allegation is untrue, but not as unfortunate as the impact on children who are left on their own with sexual abusers. Also, with child protection, action is often taken even if a prosecution is dropped, because they work on different standards of proof.
One thing that men can do to make it less likely to be accused is to treat women with respect, don't use them as sexual objects, don't talk about them like they are nothing, ensure that consent is enthusiastic and freely given, have sex within trusting relationships rather than with a drunk stranger who you are not 100% sure she is up for it, don't laugh and boast with your mates and send them humiliating pictures of your sexual encounters. Be a nice person. People are always giving women advice on what to do, so here is my advice to men. The fact that the men in the Belfast case were misogynistic pieces of shit surely made their odds of being accused much much higher than had they been kind and respectful people. If you act like a scumbag, you run the risk of getting accused, just as I run a risk of getting robbed if I leave the front door open.