UnWilly

[UnWilly]

Hi

(I have name changed for this, in case people think it is a ridiculous suggestion)

It’s from a few years ago, but I thought this initiative in Sweden was really interesting:

Sweden invents a word for girls’ genitals equivalent to ‘willy’ for boys

www.theguardian.com/world/2015/aug/01/sweden-girls-genitals-feminist-invention-snippa-vagina

We don’t really have a universal similar word here, and for the same reasons as Sweden, perhaps it’s time we did!

I reckon that if we could agree on a word, that Mumsnet likely has enough reach to get it into common usage.

So, does anyone think it is something we would benefit from, and if so, any suggestions for a term?

(and for avoidance of doubt, I am not actually suggesting unwilly as the term!)

And now with a working link...

www.theguardian.com/world/2015/aug/01/sweden-girls-genitals-feminist-invention-snippa-vagina

I don't know, I think it's becoming less common for kids to use the word 'willy'.

Penis seems the word of choice these days, reasonably enough.

Proper naming of genitals (and all body oarts) is seen as quite important, even with tiny preschoolers.

Thanks for commenting

Do they apply the same to female genitalia (and not looking to kick off an MNet vagina/vulva fight!) or is there perhaps a place for a less formal term for both?

Oh, as a non-native speaker I have been steuggling with this bit didn’t know there were no equivalents. So are fanny and pussy considered vulgar/porn words?

Yes, sorry, I meant to say it's the same for girls.

I think it has come about because parents want their children to be able to communicate clearly what any problem might be, and to diminish any idea that genitals are something to be embarrassed about.

Pussy would be considered awfully inappropriate, with very sexual overtones.

Fanny would be considered to be uncouth generally, although I think it's regarded as slightly tamer in some regions of the UK.

Isn't the generic term for girls genitals just 'privates'? That's what we've always used.

Foof

There's definitely words, but none that are a similar level of acceptable and universally used though, really. Most are regional or family words, I think, where as willy is everywhere (so to speak!)

I've never thought as Willy as being a term for all male genitals.
I think that a willy is a penis. I wouldn't use willy if I meant scrotum

Mimsie

You could call it a Wilma

Given that so many women cannot name the different bits of their genitals havid another name seems a bit pointless.All families have their own preferred way.

Foof!

I agree that willy is penis Breakfast

But why would there be family terms for one and not the other is the question Only

It's Mary for our dd's (at their suggestion).

Definitely foof.

Flaps

But willy isn't universal. There's 3 brothers, DH & SIL and they all have different names for a penis.

Yes of course we should name a vulva/vagina a not penis. After all aren't women just non-men? 🙄

I agree that willy is penis Breakfast

I usually have toast but each to their own.

As a doctor, I used the correct anatomical terms with my daughters from the start. They were in fits of laughter when they went to school and discovered the twee euphemism “front bottom”! I must say, most euphemisms for female genitals make me cringe. Why can’t we all just be rational and use the correct terms? You don’t use euphemisms for your legs or arms - what’s so upsetting about genitals?

‘Hoo har’ is one I say from time to time. Think it came from a film?

‘Bits’ is more common when referring to them

And I’d use that for both... girls bits ... boys bits... so at least it’s fair

falsepriest

I agree that willy is penis Breakfast

I usually have toast but each to their own.

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