YassQueen - so in your ideal world, every single person should be measuring up their privilege/victimhood index against everyone they meet, all the time. If you score low, you can blame the people above you for your failings. If you score high, then you don't deserve your successes, and your unworthiness should be publicly denounced acknowledged
Did you miss the part where I said, and I quote -
It takes nothing away from your own struggles and your own achievements to acknowledge that other people start further back than you do
So in your ideal world, every single person should be measuring up their privilege/victimhood index against everyone they meet, all the time
No, in my ideal world, privilege wouldn't exist. But it does, so I'll settle for people acknowledging that they have privileges that others don't by virtue of race/sex/sexuality/finance, and rather than taking it as an individual criticism, doing what you can to call out prejudice where you see it.