I am being unreasonable, IDGAF

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"D"H threatened to walk out and do his usual flounce off to the pub because I brought up the woman he had an affair with in a relevant conversation and he didn't like it. I got my shoes on first and walked to the pub. He frequently "goes for a pint" which lasts several hours and is inconvenient as I'm trapped at home with ds. I've left him looking after ds this time while I've had 3 double whiskies and I feel fucking great. Fuck that bastard.

Not unreasonable at all, he sounds like a dick.
Have one for me!

He can flounce at home instead

And one for me too! Well done OP

Once you sober up you need a plan. This is no way to live.

Well done!

well done you for going first, but you definitely need a plan...

does he have good points?

Why are you in this miserable relationship? You’re destroying your ds.

Good for you, but I agree with PP -you need a plan going forward. He sounds a shit.

Well done!

How do you feel now?

Apart from a bit pissed

No getting pissed when in charge of a child (alone.)

If you are still throwing an affair in his face, it's not gonna work is it?

LTB.

selftitledalbum how on earth can you make the assumption that OP is "destroying" her DS?

(I’m not judging you for the whiskey, just judging the miserable marriage)

Good for you. I’ve disappeared for Starbucks for hours on end (less fun that the pub true!).

To be fair you don't sound like you're feeling great

In addition, No one should feel they are trapped with their child. You probably need to rethink continuing with this relationship when sober.

In the meantime chill at the pub, don't get too wankered, as that can lead to trouble and a big gob, and tomorrow try to think through how,to separate.

Shit parental relationships destroy children. Are you beyond comprehending that the situation is not acceptable for a child to be in @sallydog? Or are you a stay together for the kids kind of person?

It's time to move on from tbis game playing exsistence to being able to enjoy life again.

No one should feel they are trapped with their child

Why? When you can't do other things that you would like to, you are literally trapped with your child. Nothing wrong with acknowledging that.

Yes👌🏼 YADNBU!!

Smart move! Im impressed!

Shit parental relationships destroy children. Are you beyond comprehending that the situation is not acceptable for a child to be in @sallydog? Or are you a stay together for the kids kind of person?

It's not ideal but don;t make OP feel worse with your overblown suggestion that children are "destroyed". What does that even mean? It's bollocks and you should pipe down.

Snow, because they are in relationship where they regularly are unable to agree how to parent snd the person who doesn't get out the house first feels trapped. So I repeat no one should feel that. Why is that confusing to uou? Do you just wish to hijack someone's thRead to have a fight?

Nope, selftitledalbum I am not! However I don't believe that a stranger on the internet can read what the op wrote and then categorically state that her child is being destroyed. That is hysterical baloney.

@snow ‘not ideal’
Well done! Aren’t you a clever little girl?

So I repeat no one should feel that. Why is that confusing to uou?

Because you picked up on the wrong part entirely. Its the relationship that is the issue, not the sometimes feeling trapped with the child which is an entirely normal thing to feel.