I am being unreasonable, IDGAF

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"D"H threatened to walk out and do his usual flounce off to the pub because I brought up the woman he had an affair with in a relevant conversation and he didn't like it. I got my shoes on first and walked to the pub. He frequently "goes for a pint" which lasts several hours and is inconvenient as I'm trapped at home with ds. I've left him looking after ds this time while I've had 3 double whiskies and I feel fucking great. Fuck that bastard.

she doesn't want to end it yet for a very good reason, so why should she listen to randoms on here?
Why impoverish herself and let him have all her money just because MN say so?

Ah this brings back memories. Every time we had a row when the kids were young it was a race to escape to the pub first. Well done OP

Why does he have all your money?

Poor you! He sounds like a pig! Hope you sort things out going forwards, only you know what is best for your situation. [hugs]

Oops - no such things as hugs. Try

I don't think what you did was unreasonable.

But, what if he decides to divorce you? It all sounds hugely precarious.

There is a child in all of this.
Such a shame that he’s caught up in it and whilst you might not be the one that had the affair the way you’re engaging in open combat with his father is potentially so much more damaging.

Let it go and let that toxic fucker go.
Concentrate on you and your son that’s your future.

How much £ are we talking about?

What amount of £ is worth staying in this shitty relationship for?

And your DS is looking at your relationship as being 'normal' and how he'll form relationships as he grows older.

If you've really got it sorted then, fine. But, walking out to confine a partner to a home is controlling abusive behaviour and you should not have to put up with this (I get you've done it to him, too, once - but what will his next punishment be?)