"This is my impression as well Graphista In Glasgow, for example, its not uncommon for primary schools in deprived areas to operate a "nurture room"; a level of attention to behaviour and pastoral care that is unheard of in England."
Yes, the pastoral care in particular, at primary level is excellent. And poor behaviour is simply not tolerated, very much a firm but fair approach, whereas in the English schools we were in the badly behaved children got away with murder - actually make that the children AND the parents! Lots of minimising and excuses!
But there's also clearly communicated boundaries on expected behaviour anyway so it's rare that extreme bad behaviour even happens, low level bad behaviour is dealt with early on in a variety of ways.
And for reassuring me I'm not invisible - was beginning to wonder 😂
Purely on my friends and family and what they tell me and post on social media there seems to be increasing problems in England with children getting places in schools far from home, not being supported and in very large classes. Generally speaking I haven't seen that happen nearly as much in Scotland. And I'm not just talking the areas I live in I've got family and friends in various other parts of Scotland too. There's some crossover In relationships with those in England and those of us in Scotland are not infrequently shocked at what those in England are having to deal with.
"I am constantly on edge about it all" that's very much the feeling I get from friends and family in England when they're awaiting news on placements. They're worried sick, have sleepless nights etc that their child is going to be placed in a school a significant distance from both home and work, and/or one they know to have poor pastoral care, resources, and exam results (especially in regard to high school level). One family I know their 2 DC are at different schools almost 40 miles apart - that's CRAZY!
Good to read English schools are starting to view pastoral care with higher priority, it was very low priority when I and then dd attended school there.
"Religious schools in England complicate matters" unfortunately we DO have religious schools here too (far too bloody many!) something I disagree with on a very basic level. They also have (albeit unofficially) admission criteria regarding observance, family background etc in addition they can even be selective about teaching staff on religious grounds. It's ridiculous!