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To say smoking does look cool?

370 replies

BeachOrPool · 09/02/2018 21:48

Yes, I know inhaling thousands upon thousands of cancerous chemicals definitely isn't cool!

But there's something about some people lighting up a cig and looking into the distance that looks rather cool and 'suave' to me Grin

I always picture having a deep conversation with a mysteriously handsome but dark horse of a person, looking far into the distance as they respond to my dilemma "That's life, Soph" or some other talk that included clever sayings that I can never think to use at the right moment.

It looks cool.

My executive assistant aunty use to look very classy sitting with her legs crossed and smoking a cig, whilst listening to my dilemmas
I just want to put it out there that I've never so much as taken a puff of a ciggy Blush

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BeachOrPool · 09/02/2018 22:01

I know, it's really bad!

My ex use to 'light up' and that bit where he put his hand over the fag to light up looked really sexy to me Blush

Then again, men reversing and looking behind them to park looks sexy to me so I must be odd Grin

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CaMePlaitPas · 09/02/2018 22:02

To me it doesn't look cool, it looks like you're hurtling towards cancer-town :(

CaMePlaitPas · 09/02/2018 22:04

@BeachOrPool I do agree about men reversing - when my DH does it I get butterflies !

FourEyesGood · 09/02/2018 22:04

I used to think so.

But my dad, who’d smoked heavily since his teens, looked far from cool while he was dying slowly and painfully over several months. He had COPD and couldn’t even take drinks normally by the end. He had to have those little sponge lollipops. They were totally not cool. He didn’t look like James Dean then.

DilbyGlipob · 09/02/2018 22:04

It's a very nasty habit, but yeah, it looks cool.

To say smoking does look cool?
KnobZombie7 · 09/02/2018 22:04

If you're 'cool' anyway, I think smoking can add a certain something to that image - if you're not remotely 'cool' in the first place, then it doesn't look at all appealing. I smoke. I don't look cool. But I DID think I looked cool as a teenager. I didn't, obviously.

KnobZombie7 · 09/02/2018 22:07

Then again, men reversing and looking behind them to park looks sexy to me

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And men looking confused. There's something about a confused brow that I find incredibly cool.

user764329056 · 09/02/2018 22:07

Slightly off topic but I think smoking is a great leveller, smokers always talk to each other, maybe we all have a death wish in common, I don’t know! Am ex smoker now but have many fond memories of smoking, shame it’s so damaging

petbear · 09/02/2018 22:07

Nope.

It used to look cool in the movies and shit, but it looks 'common' now. All middle class people (and upper class) that I know, don't smoke. It seems to pretty much a lower-working class habit now.

I think smoking is a ridiculous thing to do now. It makes you stink, it costs a fortune, it's hugely anti-social, you cannot do it ANYwhere, and it's bad for your health.

I instantly judge - and think less of - anyone who smokes. In 2018, people should know better.

LoniceraJaponica · 09/02/2018 22:07

No. It makes the smoker look like they have a low IQ.

Since the smoking ban seeing smokers furtively lurking outside buildings looking like naughty schoolkids breaking the rules looks anything but cool.

petbear · 09/02/2018 22:08

Nope.

It used to look cool in the movies and shit, but it looks 'common' now. All middle class people (and upper class) that I know, don't smoke. It seems to pretty much be a lower-working class habit now.

I think smoking is a ridiculous thing to do now. It makes you stink, it costs a fortune, it's hugely anti-social, you cannot do it ANYwhere, and it's bad for your health.

I instantly judge - and think less of - anyone who smokes. In 2018, people should know better.

DeadButDelicious · 09/02/2018 22:09

I really miss smoking. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I gave up a few years ago and have no intention of starting again (can't bloody afford it for a start) but by crikey do I miss it.

ThePinkOcelot · 09/02/2018 22:09

Well if you consider looking like Flo Capp cool, then go for it!

InToMyHeart · 09/02/2018 22:11

I'm sorry, when I see someone smoking I think they look ignorant.

It's one thing for an older person to smoke if they started before everyone knew how dangerous it was but there really isn't any excuse for young people to start now.

AgnesBrownsCat · 09/02/2018 22:11

Nope ! Cool people look cool . Nothing to do with the fag .

MaxWeber · 09/02/2018 22:13

Smoking was cool back when I used to smoke.

It hasn't been cool since I quit.

MsHarry · 09/02/2018 22:13

Lol! It so does not! Stinky breath and fingers and a lovely cough in the morning. Soooo glam! Hmm

Ontheboardwalk · 09/02/2018 22:14

Nope and they stink

GreenSeededGrape · 09/02/2018 22:14

I think it looks scummy but that's probably because in this day and age I do think only fools smoke.

ChinkChink · 09/02/2018 22:15

Brave post OP!

Of course, mention of anything to do with cigarettes immediately brings out the anti comments.

But dispassionately I certainly agree that a sexy guy with a cigarette drooping from his lip, jacket held casually over shoulder and moody of expression does it for me. Similarly, a depiction of a female sexily blowing smoke is cool.

Tobacco is an attractive smell and a component of many fragrances.

I respect everyone's right to have their anti-smoking views, beliefs and opinions and their right to express those views.

But in some instances I do find that there's a knee-jerk reaction that any mention of smoking provokes. For once I hope this doesn't get turned into an anti-smoking rant thread.

MsHarry · 09/02/2018 22:15

These days, with everything we know, I just think anyone that smokes is a bit stupid really.

MsVestibule · 09/02/2018 22:15

As a non-smoker who hates the smell of cigarette smoke (unless I'm outside and get a whiff of it, bizarrely) I'm totally with you.

It makes absolutely no sense at all, I really can't rationalise it. I wouldn't go out with a smoker, so why do I think, under some circumstances, it does look cool?!

Maybe a PP had it - smoking makes somebody sad look sadder and somebody cool look cooler.

MyKingdomForBrie · 09/02/2018 22:16

Are you by any chance the kind of person influenced by advertising?! This has been the aim of tobacco company advertising since forever.

MsHarry · 09/02/2018 22:16

I certainly agree that a sexy guy with a cigarette drooping from his lip, jacket held casually over shoulder and moody of expression does it for me.
How would he taste?

Fosterdog123 · 09/02/2018 22:16

I love the smell and find it soooo sexy when a good looking bloke smokes!

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