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Pissed off with reaction to present?

398 replies

LolitaChi · 03/02/2018 18:37

Bought friend birthday present. She opened it and literally looked at it in disgust and just muttered thanks and shoved it back in the bag.

Genuinely thought I’d bought her something she would like - obviously not. Which is fine and you can’t help what you like or dislike but surely most people would at least pretend to like it?

It’s annoyed me so much that I’ve text her to apologise. Aibu?

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Belindabauer · 04/02/2018 19:16

Why don't you tell us what it is.
Also I never knew that bone China was made from bones!
I thought it was just , well I don't know what I thought.

Peachplum60 · 04/02/2018 19:17

It must of insulted her what ever it was.

mummyB1 · 04/02/2018 19:22

What was the actual point of this thread
1 tell us what the gift was
2 her reply to your text

pollymere · 04/02/2018 19:22

Agreed. Cannot comment unless we know what the gift was.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 04/02/2018 19:22

I disagree Joy. It's basic manners to thank a friend for a present and show some interest in it, whatever it is.

Would you teach your children to unwrap a present, turn up their nose and throw it to one side? No of course not.

You just show some courtesy and tact.

Shockers · 04/02/2018 19:30

Why do people post if they can’t be bothered coming back?

emmakc1977 · 04/02/2018 19:31

Just read all of this thread to find out what the gift was. Where is OP????

Maxstress3 · 04/02/2018 19:34

I also wanted to know what the present was and have just finished reading it all....well?? Or maybe OP is too embarrassed to say what the present was

Turquoise123 · 04/02/2018 19:43

She sounds fun. Still - money saved by not buying anything for next year eh ?

CandyYumYum · 04/02/2018 19:44

She's a committed member of Peta and you had her recently deceased collie stuffed?

Pissed off with reaction to present?
CandyYumYum · 04/02/2018 19:45

It’s annoyed me so much that I’ve text her to apologise.

The most English statement ever uttered.

MiddleClassProblem · 04/02/2018 19:47

CandyYumYum Grin

Ginburee · 04/02/2018 19:47

I need that ring.......

Scaredofthegym · 04/02/2018 19:59

Bone china is made of friggin' bones? This thread has been worth it just to learn that!

TheJoyOfSox · 04/02/2018 20:02

Op bought a shitty present. That’s why she has not come back to bedazzle us with her amazing gift buying skill.
People telling me I’m being harsh, you’re the sort of people that lie through your teeth and say “oh how lovely “ when someone buys you an industrial size tube of ralgex.
Like I said, uncomfortable honesty is worth so much more than a comfortable lie for me.

Tini17 · 04/02/2018 20:08

Omg.
I’ve just read the whole thread and still don’t know what it was?

lolalola19 · 04/02/2018 20:09

Annoyed - want to know what it was or no point to the thread!!!

Nottheduchessofcambridge · 04/02/2018 20:13

Bone china....who knew!!?? Well....obviously some of you knew...Blush but not me! Nope. place marking as I need to know if op’s friend is justified in her reaction

Belindabauer · 04/02/2018 20:15

Maybe it was a bone China tea set.

Teabag37 · 04/02/2018 20:37

This is driving me nuts ........wtf was it ???

Ginburee · 04/02/2018 20:37

We need to know what the gift was. Someone posted earlier that they hate scented candles as gifts, so do I and for years it was an in joke with a good friend.
We fell out (I still am uncertain why but that's another thread) and during the falling out I turned 40. My gift was a scented candle and I gushed over it and promptly said it would be so welcomed as I love them.
I regifted it to MIL for Christmas. I wasn't going to make an issue of it and it was an expensive candle.

BackforGood · 04/02/2018 20:43

CandyYumYum Grin

I didn't know that about bone china either Shock

Belindabauer · 04/02/2018 20:46

Was it a fur coat op?

Belindabauer · 04/02/2018 20:47

Or a mu girl that said to my fat friend?

Belindabauer · 04/02/2018 20:47

Mug not mu girl.

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