My terrible exH told a sea of awful lies to all our mutual friends, his friends and anybody else who would listen. He also exposed some very personal stuff I had confided in him when I was in a vulnerable state. I thought I could trust him.
One of the lies he told was that I had left him because he didn't have any money. To be honest when we meet he was doing a MSc at uni and I was training to be a teacher. He had come from overseas to study at uni. He didn't have enough money to live on so I supported him financially during his studies which was only for 1yr. This was a strain on my finances as I did not have access to a lot of money so had to sacrifice on many things (i.e didn't go out much and had a tight budget). I thought he was an ambitious man who had fell on hard times so needed some help to get through. He had told me about family issues back home being the reason why he didn't have enough money. In hindsight those were lies and I was very gullible. 
After we got married, he became a total lazy bastard. He showed no interest in applying for graduate jobs unless I pressured him and refused to apply for some types of low paying jobs because it was beneath him. I was the main breadwinner for two years and it was stressful on a teachers salary. He eventually got part-time job as a cashier and preferred to use his money only on stuff he want for himself. His justification was that since I earned more, he doesn't need to contribute to the household.
He also went behind my back and took out a £1000 loan from the bank in our name as we had a joint account. I had to take on extra work at the weekends to pay-off every penny after we split.
In the beginning he had conned and charmed his way into my heart only to use me to fulfil his objective of getting his British papers in England. I was very young, inexperienced with relationships and naive - he read me like a book. Later on when I realised the truth, I didn't want to stay a minute longer married to a dishonest, lazy and manipulative man.
He also told people I was a nasty, horrible and crazy person. Yet he spent most of the relationship trying to convince me to have a baby with him.
Eventually it turned into forcing me to have a baby. I continued to resist. Although I would have if we were both financially stable but he wasn't and showed zero interest in wanting to improve his situation anytime soon so I refused. Now I'm thankful that I didn't have a baby with this disgusting man.
Since the split I've changed my phone number and avoided contact with him as I didn't want anymore of the drama. I didn't hear nothing from him for a long period and then 2yrs in he tries to contact me via email professing how I'm such a lovely person with a good heart and that he really appreciate all what I did for him. He also says he's sorry and wants my number and that his family back home continually ask about me and he can't bear to tell them his marriage ended.
After that I hear nothing from him again until another 2 yrs has passed. I block his email address but at that 2yr mark he uses a new one to try and contact me. I always add the new one to my block list.
Since I'm such a nasty and evil person why is he still trying to contact me after 4 years.