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AIBU to go to Costa four times a week?

136 replies

user1471556443 · 28/01/2018 22:29

Reading all the threads about wasting money on coffees / mobile phones, I am wondering if most people would consider having a coffee in Costa four times a week an extravagance? I can afford it but am interested in hearing whether most people would consider this an unnecessary extravagance as my Dm and Mil are horrified at the wasting of money??

OP posts:
Lethaldrizzle · 29/01/2018 12:11

Sitting in a cafe drinking coffee on my own is one of life's greatest pleasures. Worth every penny

czechitout · 29/01/2018 14:14

You can afford it, no problem then.

Plus by going there the staff in your local cafe has a job.

Abracadabraapileofbollocks · 29/01/2018 14:31

I can't imagine anything more dull to do with my time or money. But it's all yours so fuck the guilt.

UpstartCrow · 29/01/2018 14:33

I think many workplaces would benefit from a quiet room where talking is banned, to let people decompress.

user187656748 · 29/01/2018 14:33

I would consider it fairly extravagant and a waste of money but as others have said it all depends on whether you can afford it and the level of enjoyment you get from it. If it is adding real value to your life it's worth it if you can afford it.

careerandfam · 29/01/2018 15:27

If it makes you happy and you can afford it then no. Sometimes it's the little luxuries that make day to day life so much better :)

myusernamewastaken · 29/01/2018 15:52

I'd rather be sat in a pub than in some soul less Costa coffee shop....

Branleuse · 29/01/2018 15:59

costa ground coffee is cheap on amazon. About £30 for 12 packs, and is vry good. You could even buy a costa mug to drink it from. This is how ive got my teenager to stop buying a costa every time he goes to college

Sparklingbrook · 29/01/2018 16:00

I sit in pubs and coffee shops. Grin Some pubs can be soulless TBF though.

ShastaTrinity · 29/01/2018 16:05

It's extravagant if you are in debts, and moaning that you are broke. If you can afford it, and it makes you happy, who cares.

Other people spend a fortune on take-away, on having their nail or hair done, on tv packages. Technically, we all waste money on something if we spend money on anything other than basic survival items.

You know how much you earn, how many savings you have, how much money you have left for luxuries every month.

happymummy12345 · 29/01/2018 16:08

If you can afford it then why not?
I hate coffee, I only drink tea and hot chocolate. I do love costa hot chocolate though.

Redpony1 · 29/01/2018 16:08

I consider my payday Costa an extravagance Blush

I'd rather sit in my car alone than sit in a coffee shop alone, but i'm probably in the minority.

Lethaldrizzle · 29/01/2018 16:22

Ooh yes a glass of wine alone in a bar another one of life's pleasures. Not just cafes.

ShastaTrinity · 29/01/2018 16:23

when people beat the crap out of that moron, that's self defense right?

ShastaTrinity · 29/01/2018 16:24

BlushBlush Blush

wrong thread, please ignore...obviously

UpstartCrow · 29/01/2018 16:25

ShastaTrinity random posts are the best Grin

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 29/01/2018 16:29

Your money and your decision.

ShastaTrinity · 29/01/2018 16:29

bit violent for a Costa thread Blush

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 29/01/2018 16:30

I'd rather be sat in a pub than in some soul less Costa coffee shop

And that affects the OP, how? GrinHmm

BulletFox · 29/01/2018 16:33

Shasta Grin I love it when people do that. Yes let's deck 'im ;)

With costa, you're buying the space as well though, aren't you. Just a few minutes time to yourself to escape for a bit.

SaucyJack · 29/01/2018 16:34

I did think it was a bit harsh on Lethal and her quiet glass of wine.

ShastaTrinity · 29/01/2018 16:38

I was trying to comment on the thread about the "Prankster" faking acid attack on members of the public with water

HRTpatch · 29/01/2018 16:44

A glass of wine mid afternoon in a wine bar is lovely. I do that regularly.

pontiouspilates · 29/01/2018 16:58

HRTPatch now you are talking! Wine

RavenLG · 29/01/2018 16:58

Yes YABU if you are not already using a reusable cup.