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Should I leave immediately?

181 replies

crunchymint · 27/01/2018 13:38

Staying with a friend this weekend. Not only does she have a toilet brush in the toilet, but she had no bathroom bin and makes me take my shoes off at the door.
Should I leave immediately?

OP posts:
Original poster
crunchymint · 27/01/2018 17:34

She is an MNer, so probably yes.

OP posts:
DottyS · 27/01/2018 17:36

You are in great danger - leave now and do not look back. Leave everything and just start running,....................

Original poster
crunchymint · 27/01/2018 17:38

No! Not the wine!

OP posts:
Monoblock67 · 27/01/2018 17:51

Unless she’s spent £750 on a weekly food shop for your visit, I’m afraid it won’t be worth your time.

Madonnasmum · 27/01/2018 18:07

Lol! No, it's not me. I hate houseguests. You wouldn't get though the door.

Madonnasmum · 27/01/2018 18:09

But I do have all the things afore mentioned and once wore white to a wedding Confused

tiredbutFESTIVE · 27/01/2018 18:16

Clutch your pearls and ask if she’s on glue, don’t forget a head tilt and a tinkly laugh at the end

Guavaf1sh · 27/01/2018 20:04

I don’t think anyone has said she’s a CF yet? So I shall. She’s a CF. Everyone is a CF. CF CF CF. That’s a thing now. And she’s one

SirGawain · 27/01/2018 22:53

Is she getting married in Maui and expects you and all your tribe to go at your own expense.

Eastie77 · 28/01/2018 10:11

Hopefully you’re safely back home now OP. What a hideous weekendFlowers

She really sounds like a narc so I’d go NC as others have advised.

Do you feel ok? Any ill effects from having to use one shared loo (shudder)? I’d think about legal action if so. Go and see a solicitor. You’ll get a free 30min consultation with any one you pick.

dotdotdotmustdash · 28/01/2018 17:45

You are blessed. She is a normal person. Enjoy.

OnTheList · 28/01/2018 17:55

What on earth is wrong with toilet brushes? Never have understood the MN obsession with them

And OP, LTB

FucksBizz · 28/01/2018 18:01

Did she have an ELK? I never go anywhere where there isn't one.

DagenhamRoundhouse · 28/01/2018 18:01

Is there an ornamental coloured metal salamander on the wall?

IntelligentYetIndecisive · 28/01/2018 18:04

Does she holiday in Maui? All inclusive?

DagenhamRoundhouse · 28/01/2018 18:05

Sorry, not salamander, a gecko. Available here for only £12.99
www.therange.co.uk/picture-frames-and-wall-art/posters-prints-and-visual-artwork/gecko-metal-wall-art#851014

Do people really buy this stuff?

SimonBridges · 28/01/2018 18:11

Until you got to the word art and not drinking I thought you were at my house.

Marylou62 · 28/01/2018 18:11

You'll need a spa day to recover.

DagenhamRoundhouse · 28/01/2018 18:14

Watch out for fragranced teasel animals.

Strongmummy · 28/01/2018 18:17

She’s your friend apparently so you’re taking the piss out of her with a bunch of strangers online. Can you not slag her off with your friends ?

Eliza9917 · 28/01/2018 18:23

What's wrong with naice ham? Don't get that one.

Maireadplastic · 28/01/2018 18:25

Guava, I see your CF and raise it with a GF.

fleaflyflo · 28/01/2018 18:27

Does she wash her towels and underwear separately??

Mummyoflittledragon · 28/01/2018 18:28

Did you not sit in a chair in the garden, declare yourself a Korean lady and call out all her mistakes? YWVU

Maireadplastic · 28/01/2018 18:29

Poo crumbs.