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To think this a bit off?

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Busybeesbutt · 27/01/2018 12:00

I'm in a friendship group of 3. One of them is getting married soon. I've always considered her a close mate we used to speak every night, I've done her loadsa favours etc. I had started to feel like it was a bit one sided tbh.
Anyway she's having 8 bridesmaids some family, some her partners friends and you've guessed it the other friend out of the 3 but not me. Tactless much?

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Busybeesbutt · 09/02/2018 09:54

She'll ignore it

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CanklesByPauline · 10/02/2018 18:36

That's hilarious Grin

Snowydaysarehere · 10/02/2018 18:42

2 big bumps on her wedding pics?? She is likely to implode!!

Busybeesbutt · 10/02/2018 19:51

Yep one of the girls is due the day after the wedding Grin god I'm really not nice at times

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DuckAndPancakes · 10/02/2018 20:00

Due date day after wedding?
Ha! That’s gonna be a bridesmaid down. How will she cope if BM goes into labour the day/week before? 😂

Busybeesbutt · 10/02/2018 20:07

No idea! The other girl will be about 37 weeks too so at term Grin

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YouTheCat · 10/02/2018 20:09

I can't see anyone wanting to be a bridesmaid whilst heavily pregnant. How will they get a dress that fits for a start? It's all very well to get one with a bit of spare room but pregnant people come in all shapes and sizes.

OP, sit back, relax and watch the madness unfold from a safe distance. Grin

OlennasWimple · 10/02/2018 20:15

Yeah, that sucks. Sorry OP

ThinkOfAWittyNameLater · 10/02/2018 20:27

Hmm. 2 bridesmaids heavily pregnant.

I am reminded of a family saying: we don't do B lists.

If she has a "change of heart" decline with a smile.

Busybeesbutt · 10/02/2018 20:33

A change of heart how funny haahah

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Busybeesbutt · 11/02/2018 08:19

I'd love her to have a change of heart so I could say NO I'm really not nice at times I can't help smirking at this lol

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daydreamnation · 11/02/2018 08:24

Totally clutching at straws but it has transpired on more than one occasion that I've been deliberately excluded from bridesmaid duties because of my size!! My sister in law was very honest about it (and apologetic) but made it quite clear that she didn't want a bridesmaid slimmer than her Hmm

Busybeesbutt · 11/02/2018 11:55

I'm a size 8 so maybe

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CanklesByPauline · 11/02/2018 22:49

Tbh I don't think you're being horrible at all. Most people on here would do a private smirk at the situation

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