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To ask if Are you the best looking person your DP/DH has been out with...?

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CrispyAubergine · 18/01/2018 15:36

...And if not, how do you feel about it ?

Just wondering out of sheer nosiness interest really. I am almost certain that I am not. I have seen a couple of his ex's and they are fairly attractive but probably about equal to me. But he was very popular and good looking when he was younger and also a semi professional footballer so has probably been out with some proper stunners. Whereas I was gawky as a youngster (improved a bit in my 20s and 30's!) so have no exes that are remotely as attractive as H.

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Flisspaps · 18/01/2018 19:04

No, not by a long way.

BackBoiler · 18/01/2018 19:05

We haven't had a proper partner before each other as we have been together since we were 15 and 16 so I can say a whole hearted YES!

ReverseGiraffe · 18/01/2018 19:07

I'm the prettiest, facially. Not the skinniest, but DP loves me and the way I look.

Justmuddlingalong · 18/01/2018 19:08

I wouldn't know, haven't asked and don't care.

XmasInTintagel · 18/01/2018 19:12

I think probably not...he mentioned an ex who quickly drove him nuts with daft conversation, but he'd been flattered by her interest because she was stunning...I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be deemed stunning, but he seems to like my witty repartee Grin!

Sallystyle · 18/01/2018 19:16

No idea. I have never seen any of them.

I doubt very much that I am the best looking person he has been with.

goose1964 · 18/01/2018 19:47

I hope so. Though the only comment I've had in relation to my looks versus his was that I'm a lot younger and prettier than a work colleague thought I'd be and DH says he thought I'd be out of his league

LemonysSnicket · 18/01/2018 20:49

Yes. He only had two other girlfriends, one who I’m friends with. His mates say the ‘punching’ line for me too.

I’m not a stunner by any sense but I’m just a bit more symmetrical/ have better teeth.

multivac · 18/01/2018 20:51

Hell, no. He says that he "probably wanted intelligent children".

Grin
Growingboys · 18/01/2018 20:53

Yes definitely. My DH is handsome but used to be a bit shy and crap with women, so I think I got him at his prime!

I still tell him he's punching though. Good to keep him on his toes.

phoenix1973 · 18/01/2018 20:53

I was, yes.
But time has not been kind.

redexpat · 18/01/2018 20:59

The other 2 were Norwegian so probably not, although he'd probably say I was Smile

Farmerswife36 · 18/01/2018 21:00

I'm pig ugly and wonder how the hell dh finds me attractive ? I'm definitely punching way higher than I should as dh is gorgeous

DriggleDraggle · 18/01/2018 21:18

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hungryhippo90 · 18/01/2018 21:32

Yes! I actually am much prettier than his ex. She is not the same type of person at all. Hearing what their relationship was like actually makes me feel sick.

CrispyAubergine · 19/01/2018 21:03

Interesting replies! Thank you Flowers

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