Recently me and my dp moved out of our rented place which we shared with a roommate, and into his parents whilst we prepare to relocate for work. Roommate also just moved out and we had problems with him taking the internet box with him and leaving the place in a complete mess, rubbish everywhere etc.
So on Thursday we went back to rented place to clean up and when my partner was cleaning his room, and moving everything out, roommates diary fell out and opened on a random page, dp saw that both our names were mentioned and got intrigued. He shows me and well this diary is completely filled with things about me with events in it that never happened, it’s all about how I flirted with him and what clothes I was wearing and how I had my hair, this diary’s completely full and is a 200 page a4 notepad. I’ve never hung out with roommate alone and although i would be friendly and polite we were never friends.
I guess my Aibu is aibu to be so creeped out to find this book that’s just filled about me, about what I was wearing and things we apparently did together that never happened? I’ve started questioning how I act with people, whether if I’m too friendly or somehow give out mixed signals that I don’t know about, things I know I haven’t done but trying to justify why I’d have this whole notebook filled about me.