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To think my in laws are a bit cruel?

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cheeseobvs · 28/12/2017 15:30

This week all my ds (4) has been saying is how he wants to go to Nanny’s wants to sleep at Nanny’s, packing his toys and special cup in his bag and waiting around the front door to go, he’s never slept their before but all of a sudden is desperate to.

Myself and DH have both said to his mum about how he’s non stop going about staying at Nanny’s etc, today he started again. MIL text DH asking if he would sleep in a bed on his own, he said yes, she said ok we’ll be round in 10 mins.

Now they got here, I mentioned about how I can’t believe he’s non stop nanny this nanny that, and MIL and FIL both completely blank what I say, sit here for half an hour have a cup of tea and nothing is mentioned about DS staying over? They have left and he’s in bits, I would of asked them what’s going on but DH is the type that won’t say anything to his mothers face. They are always going on about how they want to have him sleepover and they are going to decorate the spare bedroom for him.

I feel gutted for my little boy! I was so close to my Nan and always loved the idea of my ds having the same relationship I had with mine :(.

OP posts:
MotheringMilly · 02/01/2018 10:12

I know both sets of grandparents would be delighted if DS and DD asked to sleep over, normal GP's love to be wanted. Anyway i can't stand these families that tread on eggshells around each other, just ask them.

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