Husband says I’m selfish

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I asked if we could spend Christmas on our own with DC without he’s family. Been together for 17 years and since I met his family I’ve been cooking Christmas dinner etc and not one of them offers to help even the washing up. DH says he helps which means him sitting down and having a drink. I still have to also look after the DC whilst hosting all the adults. We have been going to inlaws for past years. Now we are in a bigger property it’s still not big enough to host everyone however the inlaws are insisting on coming regardless. I explained it would be nice to have one Christmas where I’m not running around. I explained it’s not that I don’t want he’s family to come it’s because I also want to relax and enjoy Christmas with DC. My family live abroad so not involved. AIBU. Thanks

This is the tosser who just got you to move out of London when you didn't want to go? Jeez OP when will you wake up and smell the coffee?!

I'd look into going back to London after Xmas if i were you, leave Mr Selfish to his family. Maybe next year you'll meet a bloke who doesn't treat you like crap and try to get you to do sexual things you don't want to (and can get it up too).