So I'm pregnant with twins and this week I've hit a wall. I've been quite poorly. Been to Drs this week. Extreme tiredness too. I'm super big (look full term) everything has suddenly become real hard. Can no longer lift toddler, walking causing pain etc.
Husband has been pressured to go visit his mum who lives a flight away. I am so cross with him. It's for 3 days! And I have a toddler to look after too! I am so worried about being left alone with toddler.
He says he's torn as he needs to go visit his mum and his grandparents (even guilting me by saying they might die).
I think now is not the time! And I think she should be more understanding.
Reasons it annoys me:
-She chose to move there knowing that she would not see her kids as much. She did the move after a divorce. And it was for selfish reasons. I could never abandon my kids in the way she has.
-We can't afford it
-3 days is a jolly as far as I'm concerned. I said imagine if I left you for a 3 day jolly.
-we don't get on. She's extremely selfish and doesn't think of me has told me that it would "mean a lot to her if he could go"
-whilst I've been poorly husband has been doing all the jobs and childcare and he's finding it really hard. Yet he has no concern for how I will find it.
Aibu to think he should just not go. Aibu to think she should not insist on him travelling up there.