To ask if you think he is a lying twat?!!

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Posted on here the other day about my H going away on a 4 day trip with work, and one of the women he was away with he constantly 'likes' her selfies on FB.

He has cheated before so I'm struggling to trust.

So, since he's been back yesterday, he is constantly on whatsapp. He hardly used this before, but he was on line pretty much all day yesterday.

Then last night when he went to bed, he was constantly on line for an hour. Then he turned his last seen off.

This morning I noticed he has put a pin lock on his phone, never had this before.

I confronted him and he said he's just helping a friend who's going through a really difficult time atm.

So why would you turn your last seen off and put a pin lock on the phone if it was innocent?

He has just spent 4 days away on work with her?

Am I being paranoid?

I’d find the fact her Facebook is now locked down very suspicious indeed - they’re clearly talking about it, and quite quickly compared to when you first raised it with him.

Would it be PA to tell him that he is now having marriage problems so he needs to seek advice on sofas available for surfing

Kick him out, tonight.

Soon OP you will look back and be so glad that this lying pathetic tool is somebody else's problem. You deserve better than someone you can't trust

I've been in this position many years ago and I sympathise. You don't really need to ask us if he's cheating, I think you already know the answer. You need to have a good honest talk with yourself to see if you want to live a life constantly in fear of him cheating. I think it is almost irrelevant whether he is or not - the fact is you are unhappy either way - be brave and take some action to improve your life. I did and I am so glad I did. Best of luck xx

Hope you're ok OP. You deserve better.

How very lovely of him to help a friend who is going through a hard time. And he needs a pin lock on his phone because???

Sorry OP, sounds very fishy.

Leave OP, he isn’t worth all this heartache and clearly doesn’t care enough about you or Your dc to keep it in his pants.

I wish you nothing but happiness in the future, go and don’t look back!

Good luck

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