Ok so from her point of view -
She meets a guy and he pushes her into the lake. She nearly drowns. She arrives at the school, meets the Pink Ladies, Danny is elsewhere telling the guys what a slut she is (got down in the sand, and a good girl).
She's then tricked by Rizzo into bumping into Danny. Who makes her feel like shit as he doesn't recognise her, you know how it is we're all rockin and rollin. But of course the guys know who she is and thinks of her as an easy lay.
Then there's the slumber party. Peer pressured to smoke and drink. Has her ears pierced without her permission. And of course the Sandy Dee song.
She goes outside and sings, Devoted to you - "My head is saying, "Fool, forget him." My heart is saying, "Don't let go. Hold on till the end."And that's what I intend to do, I'm hopelessly devoted to you..."
This is about the guy who until this point is an arse to her. Some people go to say he's emotionally abusing her.
Fast forward a bit more. He does something nice for her, well kind off. She's dating a sports guy, Danny's jealous, tells Sandy he can run rings around him. Danny makes an arse of himself. Somehow they end up on a date together. However, he dates her in secret as he doesn't want the rest of them knowing. Remember, she also seeing someone else.
The school dance. Rather than running after Sandy, he stays to dance with Cha Cha, his ex. His defence, we didn't go together, we just went together explaining the relationship with Cha Cha.
She then runs away from the drive in, crying when he gropes her.
Such a short film and she's run from him crying now 3 times, and she hasn't really seen him in the film.
But instead of saying he aint worth this shit. She decides she needs to become a smoking hot chick. But this isn't just for him, it's for her friends as well - remember how they perceived her?
He changed his ways by gaining a sweater, which he quickly took off, seeing her new look.
By why did she have to change her look? He liked her at the beginning when they first met.
Oh and really look at the lyrics for some of the songs. Summer nights with the lyrics did she put up a fight?