My son is buying a car privately. He has transferred the money through online banking but it has not yet appeared in the sellers account as is being processed. The seller can see the transaction in my son’s account as sent to the correct account . A sample £10 sent appeared after one hour so he can see the money is being sent to the correct account
He won’t release the car until the money is in his account, but from my sons perspective the money has been paid to his account and he can’t get it back now even if he wanted to, so won’t leave without the car.
Seller is chasing with his bank but apparently it could take all day (why I have no idea).
Would you release the car or is he being reasonable to make my son wait?