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The next thread...

Fingers crossed for a nice update for you all.

I'd pull the donation completely and I'd tell the PTA why.

F1 is a cunt.

Sorry, OP.

You've one nothing wrong. She's totally in the wrong, and a complete and utter bitch for behaving as she has. I would have nothing more to do with her.

Never do anything for her again.

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Fuck her. Fuck her and the horse she rode in on.

adish I was giving back story that we was all a close knit group. The other 2 friends there children arent of school age so wouldnt have known about the flyer or my "donation". They have been filled in on whats happened tonight and they are genuinley shocked.

I dont really want the friends feeling like they have to pick a side. For obvious reasons I dont feel comfortable or safe around F1 so I am happy to miss out on a few girly nights out etc.

We all live quite close, and F2 & F3 knew something was about too happen because before she entered my salon she fired them a text about you two knew didnt you and call yourself a friend.
I didnt answer my phone to their texts because F1 was ripping me apart at this point, so they contacted my DH and he said how F1 was meeting me at the salon.

F2&F3 sensing something would be wrong was waiting at mine for me. F3 has gone home now but F2 is still here and shes seething. In her words starting a fight with me is like starting a fight with a baby.

Shes already posted a passive aggressive status but didnt name me.

Being speechless in the face of that sort of appalling behaviour is nothing to be ashamed of OP. In fact it is the only logical response. To her you would have appeared calm, polite and in control of yourself. Everything that she isn’t. She clearly has some enormous neuroses fuelling her desperation to impress new ‘friends’ at your cost.

Oh no, KungFu, that is horrible. Poor poor you. I am glad your other friends are looking after you and I hope you are feeling OK now.

There's nothing you could have said that would have made any difference.

I wonder when - if ever- she'll look back on how she's behaved with any sense of shame.

I disagree with the posters that are telling you to rescind the offer. You have contacted them, put them straight and have offered an alternative in place of her original "offer". Going back on that now would put you also in a bad light and I would also not take the advice offered here of contacting the PTA

This ^ = what Mission says.

You have offered a service now, and if you withdraw it you will look as though you are being a drama queen - they may also think that CF had been telling the truth when she offered your services i.e. that you HAD originally offered, and then threw a hissy fit over a personal squabble and changed your mind.

Ignore CF - leave your offer of a cut/updo or whatever it was, and don't have anything more to do with CF.

you need to grow a pair of balls OP.. you cannot allow yourself to be treated like this FFS ... you've handled this incredibly well ... do not stop now.. contact that School and tell them as a result of her actions and behaviour you will be withdrawing your kind offer of a treatment... Stick it to her where it hurt Lady her IMAGE

Gawd I'm so angry for you lovely...

KungFu well done you. You have come out of this with your dignity intact. She however...I am gobsmacked at her audacity.

She is a complete nutter. I would predict that when her roots need to be done or she needs a style for a Christmas party (perhaps the PTA drinks , she will plop her arse in your chair (at closing time), give a tinkly laugh with a comment of it all 'being water under the bridge' and expect things to go back to how they were!

What if she wins the bloody prize ?

Wow 😡😡😡 what an utter bitch.

Please don't be sad that you 'took' that barrage of abuse. Perfectly natural response to be stunned into silence by that kind of behaviour 💐

Wow.
I'd almost be in for a penny, and pull the donation completely. Purely due to the abuse you just copped.
The silly woman has had multiple opportunities to remedy the situation and just keeps making it worse.
Explain to the PTA lady what just happened, and get her dropped from the PTA.
Awful woman needs a sharp lesson in how to treat people.

You’ve done nothing wrong. No wonder you were so upset.

Should she have the nerve to show up looking for her hair being done do not charge mates rates. She can pay full price.

You still offered a prize to an organisation you have nothing to do with x

You've had a lucky escape by the sounds of it - and I believe your friends (the other ones) are realising it too. Not only has she looked an idiot to her new friends - her old ones have seen the light.

I wouldn't pull the offer personally, however I would let Mrs PTA know what your 'friend' has done purely because a) I'm a petty bitch and b) if there's any positions of responsibility/any new people she's asked to take under her wing/any jobs she's asked to do it doesn't sound like she'd be suitable or put in the work/respect such a position needs.

I'd also think that they really wouldn't want someone who behaves/reacts like she does having a position on their PTA representing their school!

What a shitty “friend”

I am so sorry she has treated you like this. You did really well to keep your dignity. There was no answer to that barrage of abuse that would have made a difference, I think yours was to the point and said everything it needed to. Anything else would just have given her more ammo. I am glad your other friends have been so supportive and have seen things as they truely are.

I don't think your should rescind the offer for the updo, or contact the PTA again, other than to drop the voucher off. Keep the moral high ground.

Hugs, what a horrible 24 hours. I hope she backs off now.

F1 will fall out with everyone in the friendship group, as they will support you after seeing her true colours. She will end up with no friends.

Toads: F1 will fall out with everyone in the friendship group

And it will be everyone elses fault because they're all so jealous of her too(!)

What a twat she is.

Ask her if she is on glue.

"adish I was giving back story that we was all a close knit group. The other 2 friends there children arent of school age so wouldnt have known about the flyer or my "donation"

Ah, I see. I think CF/F1 will drag everyone into it regardless, but somehow I can't see you having to miss out on any girly nights. I cannot visualise the rest of the group wanting to pander to her behavior.

Perhaps you should put something on the voucher for the Updo, to prevent it ending up in CF's hands, though.
Maybe something along the lines of "Raffle Organisers, Members of the PTA and Cunty Fucker Ex-Friend are not eligible to be drawn for the Updo prize".

Send her a quick email with the link to these threads. She might not feel so high and mighty once she sees what we all think of her.

Just caught up with both threads and.....My god what an absolute ocean dwelling thundercunt.

So eager to impress her new PTA friends, she shat all over her old ones.