Sorry I posted and ran.
Had a mard arse moment and had a cry to F2 & 3. Theyve came round and we had a glass of wine while I had a good cry.
Ive honestly never been spoken to like that in all my life. The only reason she wanted too come round was because PTA lady had basically text her and said she was bang out of order and thats not how the PTA operate, shes lucky I didnt escalate it further and one more slip up shes of the PTA.
Apparently I made her look a stupid twat. Im heartless, I had set her up to fail, I sabotaged her on purpose because apparently Ive always been jealous of her. Made her look a laughing stock infront kf her new friends. Im tight fisted - i could have gave that donation away and not been out of pocket because Im not short of money with me having a business and DH working full time in a good job. I was pretty much called every name under the sun.
Im ashamed too admit it all I could muster was "are you being serious right now?" after her rant, told me to fuck myself and flounced out.
Im embarrassed I sat there and took all that abuse and never once defended myself, I was just so taken back because ive never been approached or spoken to like thay ever.
Thankyou for all the kind words everybody.