Christmas

[Changename1988]

Name changed as possibly outing. My brother and SIL live abroad (sil is for my nieces have never had a Christmas in England due to brothers work. Now first time they can come to England

OP go post in the adoption forum. There will be many others experience adopters there who will get the need for this. Sadly you cant force your brother and SIL to understand the needs of your children but the adoption forum might give you ideas on how to speak to them and how to make the right decisions for your children.

Good luck

Enko thank you. you've hit the nail on the head. I am worried my brother and sister in law haven't realised what this could mean for my children.

I understand how you feel. Its recommended that new family members are introduced after many months and only in small numbers. I would go over to the adoption board for advice.