To put all of yesterday's washing up on DH's car bonnet

[drfostersbra]

I cook, DH washes up. Well that's the agreement that we come to every few months after a huge row when I ask why he has decided not to wash up again.

If there's one thing that pushes my buttons, it's coming downstairs in the morning after cooking a lovely meal the night before and finding stinking dirty washing up.

I'm at home all day with our very mobile baby today and there's no side board space to prepare food and a bad smell that I have to sit with all day.

Bastard.
So would I be U to put it all in on his car bonnet so he will need to move it before he starts his day (as I will have to do)
It annoys me that it's always good for a few months then he leaves it for one night, I let it go, 2 nights I think 'oh he must be tired I'll do it', 3 nights hmm he's slacking. 4 nights arggggh!

[Joyy]

Coming home from work and not being able to settle until you've done washing up after dinner, what time is that 8pm? Trust me to do this every day takes it's toll just like being stuck in with a baby. You can't expect people to be perfect all the time and to humiliate him by putting it on his car bonnet? What the hell kind of partner does that make you! Does he need enemies? Maybe next time you slack off on something minor he should dump something on your bonnet see how you feel.

[Nevertoomuch22]

Good luck with the divorce!!