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First grey hair!

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Dancingfairy · 23/09/2017 12:51

At 28! Aibu in thinking this is really early? I feel like sobbing. It wasn't even a little one either it was very long and very white :( and I'm allergic to hair dye so isn't gonna be easy to cover but didn't think I would be dealing with this so soon :(

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GertiesEyebrow · 23/09/2017 15:23

My eyebrows on thd other hand are horrendous - proper old man grey sticking up everywhere mutant things. I spend almost as much time dying, triming and waxing those as I ever did dealing with roots.

Dustbunny1900 · 23/09/2017 15:23

I have a working theory..that dark haired "cool toned" pale girls go grey earlier. . I started going gray at 21 or 22..my mother started at 16. It's genetic, but I read things like dying you read hair or stress on the follicle can make it turn white earlier.

Dustbunny1900 · 23/09/2017 15:24

Not sure how "read" got in there, sorry. But no, 28 isn't young at all to find a random white hair

GertiesEyebrow · 23/09/2017 15:28

I spent years henna-ing. With a little grey it can look quite pretty and sparkley but with my hair it was going more and more orange which wasn't for me. So I started adding indigo which gave a better result but just too much hassle.

SisyphusHadItEasy · 23/09/2017 15:51

DD was 10... not sure what the big deal with grey hair is anyhow. I don't dye my hair and have been noticeably greying since I was a teenager. Fully grey before 40, and I get complimented on my hair now.

Besides, people pay ££££ to have fake grey hair now.

Dancingfairy · 23/09/2017 16:38

I've been hospitalised because I have a severe reaction to hair dye not quite sure what I'm allergic to in it, hoping it's just the one!

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goose1964 · 23/09/2017 16:43

My cousin has nearly black hair and her greys look like silver sparkles. I have a widow's peak

Fairylea · 23/09/2017 16:46

I had my first one at 15 - I remember pulling it out in front of the mirror and being fascinated! I'm 37 now and I have lots and lots of grey and I only dye it when I can be bothered, I've got very dark hair and I actually think having flashes of white / grey is quite fun, especially on someone who looks and dresses a lot younger Grin I don't mind the grey at all! My mum is 70 and she absolutely hates grey and can't understand why I won't dye mine!

RandomUsernameHere · 23/09/2017 16:49

Don't worry OP, it doesn't mean you will suddenly get lots of greys. I found my first one in my very early twenties and now ten years later I still only have a few, not enough to need dyeing.

Ttbb · 23/09/2017 16:51

About half of brunettes I know were sorting grey hairs before 20

Spinningpenny · 23/09/2017 16:54

I was 22 when mine started. Prob about 80% grey now at 37 but dye every 6 weeks without fail!

Lollyb86 · 23/09/2017 16:56

31 and just started getting GreysHmm

GrandDesespoir · 23/09/2017 17:18

I'm going to stay blonde until the day I dye.

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