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To be annoyed

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BikerBabe1 · 13/09/2017 15:02

MIL came to my house to look after 3.5 yr old twin DD & DS whilst I was at work an extra day today for training.

I got home at 2pm to discover she has washed all the pots that were left and she's tidied up. There was not a lot of pots and basically I've been working flat out as well as being unwell so I've just not had a spare minute but it makes me feel like she thinks we're scrubbers when she does that. (Btw you should see their house which is filthy!)

I'm so annoyed, firstly because she doesn't wash up well at all, there's always dirt on stuff. Secondly she has had to move some private papers to 'tidy up' and it's not tidying is it, it's basically moving things that I hadn't had chance to file away to a safe place to a new place that I don't know where they are.

AIBU to be annoyed?

OP posts:
user1499786242 · 16/09/2017 10:33

You obviously don't have diagnosed OCD because if you did you would not be making light of it!
I would give anything to even have a mother in law, she sadly passed away before my little one was born.
I wouldn't care if she came in and made a huge mess, I would just be grateful my child has a grandmother...

I hope to god she never gets wind of how ungrateful and insulting you are to her!

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