My friend is cleaning my house! Should I be grateful or offended?

[IfyouseeRitaMoreno]

I had a party. All good. Now my friend who is staying over is cleaning my house. Top to bottom. Dusting, polishing, mopping. I've told her to stop but she won't!

Does that mean she thinks my house is really dirty or is she just being polite? She's raked up dust balls I didn't know existed.

Should I stop her or just relax?

What is the protocol?

Say thankyou nd make her a cuppa!

Leave her to it... I'd have regular parties if it meant someone would clean my house after!

I'd be grateful she's helping clear up after a party. She could be sitting like a bump on a log watching you do everything.

Weirdly I enjoy cleaning other peoples houses more than my own, I think it's because I'm not going to see it dirtied by my family!

Let her crack on with it, she's clearly just "in the mood" for a spring clean

Oh god, I'm that friend . I like to be helpful and get a bit carried away once I'm started.

Why are you not helping? Does she have some sort of OCD?

Why do you need to ask if you should be offended or pleased? Which actually are you?

So I shouldn't feel guilty? My usual post party MO is to let it fester till tomorrow ....

I will offer her a cuppa... good plan

I also prefer to clean other people's houses.. wish someone would come and do mine lol

You need to tell her that your dear friend shouldwe has greater need than you and she needs to come over immediately.

Why do you need to ask if you should be offended or pleased? Which actually are you?

I'm not sure. Which is why I asked you lot! My bro and pa came and played games. My mum, sis and (female) friend helped in kitchen.

I feel guilty. But happy that it's gonna be shining!

Wow I would be eternally grateful. Make her a cuppa and some cakex

Shouldwe

No, it means she appreciates you've had a party and is helping you clean up after. Good friend.

Let her get on with it and bake her a cake as a thank you can I borrow your friend??

What's her number? I want to invite her to my next party.

Tell her she missed a bit...

I would love that, can I borrow her

Can I have a party so I can invite your friend and end up with a clean house? I'm sure I have dust from last year still laying about

Going rate for cleaning is £8 per hour...
Order take away instead

I'm going out tonigh.

When she's finished send her round here? I'll pop the key under the doormat and she can let herself in, and I'll pay with 🍷 In copious amounts

Then send her here :-) I was hoovering up lametta the other day 😐

I'm that friend too, especially after a party. Make her some Coffee and cake then enjoy it!

Just enjoy it! I'm sure your friend is trying to do something absolutely lovely for you (and it's hard work too!).

Just relax, as a friend she is probably trying to be helpful.

Either help her a biy, or tea and biscuits. Both are fine