She talks to me like shit...

[Louiser239]

My "friend" of 11 years talks to me like shit and snappy but wouldn't dream of talking to her other friends like that.
She puts me down a lot but bigs the other girls up "ooh you look fabulous"
"Wow you look amazing"
With me I get nothing.
If I suggest a pub she will say no we aren't going in..if one of the others suggest it "oh that's a fabulous idea"
It's all so fake,I'm thinking of just cutting her out of my life.

A friend wouldn't belittle and shame you.
Get rid.

She sounds like a complete bitch.

Don't bother with her anymore, life is too short to have these kind of people in your life

I'm just going to do my own thing.
Not make a effort to talk to her etc...
I wouldn't mind if I was a bitch to her but I'm really not.

"I wouldn't mind if I was a bitch to her but I'm really not."

You really aren't understanding the dynamic here.

Also, I doubt this person is jealous of you, as other people have suggested. It is power, pure and simple. This person probably likes you, in her own way. But something in her reacts to your submissive nature. It brings out the worst in her. The mover you are to her, the worse she will treat you.

Either back off, only see her alone, or start biting back. You might be surprised at what happens when you throw a little contempt her way.

*the nicer you are to her

I had a friend like that. I started to ignore her. Didn't initiate text convos and left her to it. She seemed to be very surprised that I wasn't just taking her crap anymore. She started to text me, be nice to me but it was too late. Plus the fact she turned her nastiness to another friend instead. Get rid

So she laughs at you, talks to you like shit, doesn't acknowledge messages or initoate conversation.

What do you do about it? You buy her a thoughtful gift!!!

It's akin to a puppy being kicked.

Please please tell her what a cow she is, then move on with you're life. You are in an abusive relationship with her.

I have a friend like that. She was a complete bitch to me the last time I saw her, always putting me down. I've not bothered contacting her again. Her loss.

Playing with your mind. You may not have many friends but devote some of the time you spend with her on others. Friends should make you feel good, if they don't, get rid, of certainly back away for a bit.