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Is 20 quite old for uni???

127 replies

Troupee3 · 01/09/2017 17:33

Just that. For an undergrad, moving away situation?

OP posts:
wonkylegs · 01/09/2017 21:01

I went away to uni at 19 going on 20 as I'd been ill during my a-levels so had to repeat a year. I then had to repeat 2nd year as I fell ill again (ultimately ended up disabled). So I was never the 'right age'
There were loads of different ages on my course with loads of different routes to their starting point, no one blinked. We told our stories whilst drunk in freshers week then just got on with it.
My career requires 3 degrees, with compulsory work experience between and funnily enough I was one of the youngest to fully qualify despite my early delayed start, other people just took longer between doing work experience (or repeating bits).

FreeSpiritJen · 01/09/2017 21:04

In a word, no.

20 is not too old to start uni.

Many people don't start til 19 or 20. Some even start a few years later. Not everyone starts at 18.

gingergenius · 01/09/2017 21:05

I'm 48 and I got offered a place at uni. No. 20 is not old. 20 is not even considered a mature student! Confused

DrHorribletookmycherry · 01/09/2017 21:06

At uni one of the post gap year students was doing the same course as her mum.

FreeSpiritJen · 01/09/2017 21:07

I see you are asking for you. Smile

A number of people start at 19 to mid 20's and still live in halls yes. Anyone late 20's and older is quite entitled to as well, but probably wouldn't want to.

Ellie56 · 01/09/2017 21:08

My son was nearly 21 when he went to uni. He wouldn't have coped at 18.

thegreylady · 01/09/2017 21:09

My grandson will be 20 next month and starts his first year undergrad course in a couple of weeks. He retook an A level to improve his grade and had a part time job to help with expenses.

Grilledaubergines · 01/09/2017 21:10

Not at all. Age is never a barrier to anything.

Bungee jumping with a weak bladder is a barrier.

Education, never.

RedastheRose · 01/09/2017 21:18

My Dd started her second degree at 22! There are loads of students from 18 and upwards no one cares. In her house there's a lad of 26 is just finishing his Masters having started as a mature student, she is 23, one of the other lads is 22, there is a 20 year old and next month when they go back there is another 26 year old joining them.

Pollypudding · 01/09/2017 21:19

My DS is starting an access course at 20 and staying in halls- he thought he would be the oldest but turns out he is the youngest in his flat! He left school at 16- did 2 years at colleague, a gap year then volunteering. His brother went to Uni at 18 straight from school. I went to Uni at 17- dropped out then went back at 23 to a different degree. So 20 is a great age and there will be a big range of ages. Hope you decide to go and enjoy your course.

thekittensmittens76 · 01/09/2017 21:21

One of my best friends was 21 and I was 18 when we met in our first year. Never gave it a second thought!

ReinettePompadour · 01/09/2017 21:22

The oldest person on my course is 64. He will be 70 when he finished his Masters degree.

BabychamSocialist · 01/09/2017 21:24

Not particularly. Most will be 18 but there will be a range of other ages too - people who've took a gap year, mature students, people who are there because their employer is paying for it etc, people who are retraining in their 40s etc.

grendel · 01/09/2017 21:25

I took a gap year and have a September birthday so had just turned 20 when I started. Didn't feel old at all, loads of people of around the same age. In fact it was interesting to see how those who hadn't come straight from school generally coped a bit better with the pressures of university life in the first couple of terms. They were more used to sorting themselves out and dealing with pillocks!

blueflowers9 · 01/09/2017 21:28

I was 23 , so no.

HoneyIshrunktheBiscuit · 01/09/2017 21:33

You'd only be two years older than most and there will be a lot who are 19 going on 20. It really is not even close to being old...

JCo24 · 01/09/2017 21:36

I moved into halls as a fresher aged 24 and all of my flatmates were older than me by a couple of years. Honestly 21 is very young.

Gillian1980 · 01/09/2017 21:45

No. I went at 23, lived in halls in first year.

Loads of people of all ages, even in halls.

Socksey · 01/09/2017 21:51

Um.... one of my 1st years is 63....

lgalla1985 · 01/09/2017 21:51

I did my degree at 28 and there was someone on my course in their 60s.

BuntyCollocks · 01/09/2017 22:06

I'm starting a new degree on Monday at 34. So, no.

NurseButtercup · 01/09/2017 22:58

My friend went to uni when she was 51 and now she's a qualified teacher, so 21 definitely isn't too old Smile

BanginChoons · 01/09/2017 23:15

It's fine. There are people who live in on my course aged up to 24. You will probably be in halls with second and third years too, many of whom will be 20 I am sure Smile

BoysofMelody · 02/09/2017 00:22

Thing is, that actual age means nothing at this stage. They'll be some utterly clueless 20 somethings and some incredibly interesting and nuanced people who've just turned 18. People mature at different rates.

indulgentberries · 02/09/2017 00:38

No, some of ds's friends who are taking a gap year will be nearly 20 when they start as they have autumn birthdays.

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