Aibu to not wear hot pants and boob tube? he asked me to wear them!

[Nat123xxx]

I've literally been on two dates with him.
I don't even fancy him but I thought I would give him a chance just incase and because I thought I might as well.
After the first date he said ,we will go to the beach for our next date it would be great if you wore a boob tube and hot pants.
I jokingly said "1995 has called and thinks your idea of a good outfit is atrocious"
I met him yesterday and he actually seemed disappointed I wasn't wearing hot pants ..it was 2pm and about 16 degrees.
I'm not even sure what I'm asking but would this annoy you to the point you wouldn't see him again?

Nope! Plenty more out there, especially if you don't really fancy him anyway!

Yes.

I couldn't deal with anyone who told me what to do like that!

After two dates he wants to tell you what to wear? Hell no.

Don't see him again

What a presumptious twat! You should have said "Ok! Will you wear a mankini and a cowboy hat please? It would be great if you did!"

He sounds like a weirdo... Sorry!

Actually after any dates he shouldn't tell you but really?! How is this even a question? Obviously don't see him again

Bin

Just no spark for me.
I'm actually worried il never feel anything for anyone again.
Second guy I've dated since my ex and I've felt nothing..except a bit sad it's not my ex.
I don't even think it's because I'm not over ex it's because I didn't fancy them /like them.

I can't believe you met him after that - that is one red flag right there.

Move on love. He ain't worth it.

What a creep. Bin him.

He said I like my women sexy as hell but he isn't sexy???

I would ditch him. You say you don't even fancy him anyway.

Nobody tells me what to do or wear, and would be given very short shrift if they tried.

I thought he was joking,I thought surely nobody would say that.
I've got a date with another guy on Friday,let's see how that one goes.

Second guy I've dated since my ex and I've felt nothing..except a bit sad it's not my ex.I don't even think it's because I'm not over ex

You're definitely not over your ex, I'm sorry, so not ready for dating, but that doesn't change the fact this guy is a total creep

Don't even give him a second thought. Move on.

Ugh...what a creepy slime ball. Dump it.

I'm one of these people who needs the distraction of someone else to get over the ex but obviously this only works if I actually like the person.
I do miss my ex tho,kept thinking what it would be like if it was him and not this guy out with me.

"I like my women sexy as hell" I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from laughing in his face at that.

He sounds awful. And you're not even attracted to him! Please don't see him again.

Also he is trying to get me to his place but I wouldn't sleep with anyone that fast..never.
My ex didn't even mention anything like that till after about 9 dates and even then no pressure.

He's a total twit.

He said I like my women sexy as hell but he isn't sexy??? Bleeeuuurgghhh YANBU

NEXT

Glad you've got another date lined up for Friday

If you see him again, wear a burqa.

Stop going on dates with men that you have no spark with. You can't force things. One day you will just notice that your starting to fancy other men.

The danger with ignoring red flags is that the men suck you in without you realising it, especially if you really want another relationship.

Enjoy being single, dating should be fun, if it isn't fun, end it immediately.

Creepy and fetishistic as hell. Just eeeeeeeeeew!

A hard pass on this guy. Everyone can do better than that!