Say a child really loves nuts. Not allowed to have peanut butter on toast before school, not allowed to take any peanut containing product to school, not allowed to have peanut products in the evening in case traces remain. So basically never allowed to eat nuts except maybe on a Saturday. Say 398 kids in a school love nuts, but 2 kids are allergic - this means none of the other 398 kids are allowed to eat something they absolutely love. How is this fair on the 398
Would you honestly be ok saying to a parent, "I'm really sorry your child died but unfortunately, my child likes a peanut butter sandwich for his lunch"
Are you that selfish, you genuinely believe your child wanting nuts is more important than keeping a child alive?
Would you be ok knowing you could be the cause of someone's death, even though you have been told no nuts at school, you still think it's ok?
You sound really really horrible.