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To want to shoot my friend

298 replies

liverbird10 · 15/08/2017 12:46

...for naming his daughter Tinkerbell?

I know I am actually BU as it's none of my business etc. Also shooting people is generally not the way to approach such matters.

I feel so sorry for the poor kid. She's going to go through torture at school. Not to mention thee rest of her life. Imagine a high court judge called Tinkerbell.

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Theducksarenotmyfriends · 17/08/2017 08:13

I kind of like Tink as a name Blush

busyboysmum · 17/08/2017 08:22

Disney didn't invent the nane. It was in the original book by JMBarrie.

Terrible name for a child though.

LeninaCrowne · 17/08/2017 08:22

Just curious, was it the mother or father of "stinkerbelle" who pushed for the name? If it was the mother I can see the poor tot dressed in "Disney Princess" finery.

SexLubeAndAFishSlice · 17/08/2017 09:25

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philoSlothical17 · 17/08/2017 09:57

A cocoa lillybelle lives near me!

shushpenfold · 17/08/2017 09:58

My cat has that name.....you're all being very cruel.

Frokni · 17/08/2017 10:01

Some of my fav responses ever I feel!

OP your friends will realise soon enough how unfair that name is. Just be ready with an "I told you so". Get on your high horse for a name like Tinkerbell!!!!

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OhGodWhatTheHellNow · 17/08/2017 10:11

I named my Ds after a character in the magic roundabout Blush We're in Wales though so he blends in.

Dh still thinks it was the bloody poet (ha, ha, no...)

FrogsSitonLogs · 17/08/2017 10:17

I have met a baby 'Bell'. Not even Belle.

MsLexicon · 17/08/2017 10:29

Well it least they spelled it correctly. I have heard many an idiot refer to Tinklebell.
It is a revolting princessy name. Yuck.

MistressClaireBeauchamp · 17/08/2017 10:29

@busyboysmum

Disney didn't invent the name. It was in the original book by JMBarrie.

Terrible name for a child though.

True...... but he invented it as a name for a fairy.
The name he invented for a little girl for the very same story caught on rather better.... Wendy didn't exist until he created it.

pigsDOfly · 17/08/2017 10:30

Sorry if someone has already pointed this out, but the name Shula is often short for Shulamith or Shulamit - spellings vary.

Anyone with that name is probably Jewish, so yes, Shula Archer, being called Shula is a bit odd.

WashingMatilda · 17/08/2017 10:31

Doris this is the second thread I've seen now where you have blown up in the OPs face.

Are you otherwise well?

Leapfrog44 · 17/08/2017 11:20

Put the gun down please.

There's nothing worse than a name that everyone else has. I'd die before naming a child Sarah or John. I've got lots of friends that I grew up with with off-centre names. Puck, Rabbit, Kezia etc

Mumsnetters are perhaps a disproportionately conservative, aggressively aspirational and judgmental lot so you already know the response you're going to get here.

NellieBuff · 17/08/2017 13:02

DorrisGurl easy does it. I know I can get right grumpy but the OP was having a light hearted conversation no need to blow a gasket.

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 17/08/2017 13:33

I think its suspicious both Doris and the op have disappeared....let's call Basil the Great Mouse Detective.

Jux · 17/08/2017 13:38

DorrisGurl, you say your dd's in high school, does that mean you're in America or somewhere not UK? Generally it's secondary school here. I just wondered, because the culture is very different; that may have a lot to do why most of us on this thread think the name is going to be a problem for the child, while you disagree.

SistersOfPercy · 17/08/2017 14:06

I have a Belle Blush

To be fair though she is an Eleanor, from which came Ellie > Ellie Belle > Belle.
Most people call her that. She does Princess cosplay as well at cons so can get the odd raised eyebrow.

WashingMatilda · 17/08/2017 14:42

sister's Belle is lovely.

BenLui · 17/08/2017 14:49

Jux in Scotland we say "high school". It's not just an American thing.

PoppyPopcorn · 17/08/2017 15:10

There's a competent, pleasant doctor on TV (Embarrassing Bodies) whose first name is Pixie

Wrong! Her name is Bernadette. Just in the same way that Pixie Lott is called Victoria.

pollymere · 17/08/2017 15:46

She can be known as Belle.

busyboysmum · 17/08/2017 15:51

MistressClaireBeauchamp yes I know. I was responding to the poster who thought the name had been made up by Disney. 😊

GirlDownUnder · 17/08/2017 16:05

Awwww Neutrogena how does it feel to be politer, more helpful, and well, more just more pedestrian than Dorris

Shame

Boring now x

Alisvolatpropiis · 17/08/2017 23:09

MistressClaire

Wendy was a surname long before JM Barrie "invented" the name", in the 16th century a man of that surname was the doctor of Henry VII.

JM Barrie may well have introduced the name Wendy as a first name, but he by no means invented the name itself.